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How common is cuckholding?

I feel like I keep seeing it everywhere and I was recently approached to be involved in it.

It's not really my thing, just curious how many people are into that since its not really something I could see doing in my own relationships.

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Jonjdw · 46-50, M

I don’t know. But it seems on here where people can be themselves it’s many. I have to think it’s hit that my wife has been with other guys. It’s hot to hear her say that she still would. But she don’t actually do it. But she don’t have the time to.

hunkalove · 61-69, M

I had a girlfriend who cheated on me every chance she had. I didn't want to lose her so I got used to it. That was over 40 years ago.

TheOneyouwerewarnedabout · 41-45, MVIP

seems more of a liberal thing...

i dont share as it is.. not gunna watch it..

TrashCat · M

@TheOneyouwerewarnedabout LiBeRaĺllls

You behave like a liberal using non pc words and ceitical thinking skills

TrashCat · M

Its massive. Trump's been cuckholding the entire US

JonLosAngeles66 · M

I don't see the thrill in it. But that's the nature of fetishes. They make perfect sense to those who have them and seem crazy to those who don't.

Librarose · 18-21, F

@JonLosAngeles66 Some fetishes are way more crazy than others tho 😂

JonLosAngeles66 · M

@Librarose some are downright dangerous.

Submissiveiendencies · 18-21

I think cuckolding is more common then you think.People keep it a secret . Not like the people on here.
I have a lady friend that invites me over to be the cuck when she has her BBC boy friend over.

SteelHands · 61-69, M

Most normal people would say that it's not cuckholding but rather voyeurism.

When a married couple does it there is an added component of intentional corruption or "whore pimping"

When adultery is carried out secretly and it results in a pregnancy other than from the husband it's called cuckolding. [b]"The basis of the word "cuckold" is found in the cuckoo, a bird which lays its eggs in other birds' nests, forcing the unsuspecting bird to raise offspring which are not its own."[/b]

LeftWingProgressive · 22-25, T

it is the number one cause of interfamily shooting homicides in the yoonited staytes

thewindupbirdchronicles · 46-50, M

Cuckolding - probably common, but this new world comes with a thousand terms to understand behaviour that existed before, and by creating a noun sort of undermines nuances and lumps a lot of behaviours... Oh well, the dark ages of social media and opening of culture, it'll change...

Librarose · 18-21, F

@thewindupbirdchronicles cuckholding has nuance?

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Musicman · 61-69, M

It depends on if you are into dominance and submission or not.

SW-User

I have no idea. The only thing close to that I might be cool with is the anonymity of the glory hole booth but that's mostly just used by gay guys and it's just a fantasy. Not sure I'd ever follow through and I doubt my SO would be into it.

AnnSteve · C

@SW-User before covid my husband took me to those places. Its hot for him to watch, but not that fun for me. Not as sxy as it appears

SW-User

@AnnSteve I'd love to hear more about your experience if you or Steve would like to DM. I've been curious for a long time but never follow through. Some things are best left to just being fantasy.

novaguy2u · 70-79, M

@AnnSteve That's a shame, but it's not uncommon that a guy persuades his wife to swing against her wishes or better judgement. I've seen it happen.

ChipmunkErnie · 70-79, M

I dunno -- do you mean holding your own cuck or someone else's cuck?

Diotrephes · 70-79, M

@Librarose Young people, teens to mid20s, tend to have multiple sex partners before they settle down with just one. They usually go through up to 16 during that phase. It's just a rite of passage in today's America. Of course some people will continue that behavior throughout their lives because people like to think of themselves as being attractive and desireable.

SteelHands · 61-69, M

The term is applied to a parent unknowingly raising a child that's not their own.

Pimping your wife is pimping your wife. Doesn't matter if she gets pregnant, it's for perverse reasons. You or she or both derive a reward for her or him servicing a John or a Jane. It's prostitution.

BRUUH

I'v heard more about it from this site than probably anywhere else by far. pretty sure the fetish thing is small but I consider polyamory to be the same thing so pretty big in that sense. You let your partner smash someone else, you are CUCKEd by my definition.

ChipmunkErnie · 70-79, M

Depends on if you're using the original definition or not.
"cuckold
noun
cuck·old ˈkə-kəld
-(ˌ)kōld
: a man whose wife is unfaithful"

By that definition, it happens millions of times every year.

sstronaut

Approach by someone wanting you to be involved with their man? Or something wanting to date you and then share you?

WillaKissing · 56-60

I say whatever a couple decides to do is their business, but like you I would never ever be involved in this!

Strictmichael75 · 61-69, M

Each to their own
Don’t judge

vetguy1991 · 51-55, M

Its not talked about much

chillout17 · M

In real life I know none

ViciDraco · 36-40, M

Even as a poly person I can't say it's my thing. I get no thrill or gratification from them being with someone else. It's just something they do apart from me. That stuff stays separate for me.

basilfawlty89 · 31-35, M

No idea.
I've never gotten why people are into it.
To each their own I suppose.

BlueGreenGrey ·

eMortal · M

@BlueGreenGrey Haha damn! That’s a good one!!

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Diotrephes · 70-79, M

@SteelHands [quote]Actual cuckolding is cheating on husband and getting pregnant then hiding it and then never telling him or the child that your husband is not the father.

Fantasy role playing the cuckolding scenario is not for the purposes of outside discussion, cuckolding. Though the fantasy larp with or without the humiliation or degradation element uses the term cuckold to add or enhance the pretence for eroticism purposes.

More specifically it's voluntary partner/ spousal sharing or eroticised cheating. Using a pretence of the verb to bypass the deviancy or s&m or pimp/ho connotations that exist in making a charade of matrimony doesn't alter the reality of what it actually is in normative discussion.

Even if they say it's only my opinion. My opinion is linked to the biological and factual realities so the opinion is based in fact.[/quote]

Mary cheated on Joseph and he didn't screw her until after she had Jesus. So, maybe when women do the same thing now they are actaully being screwed by God. After all, he did it in the past so why not now?

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