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How well do you handle Change?

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ShadowWorker · 61-69, F Best Comment
🤔..huh... scary to say this ..but quite well. Practice makes perfect!
Matter of fact I kinda like the challenge of change.
Well...I've learned that change is good for you sometimes. ....even when it's frightening and confusing.

helsbels · 31-35, F
I usually pay with card these days 👛🪙
Montanaman · M
@helsbels 😁😆😅🤣 you're killin' meh!🤪🤗
BlueVeins · 22-25
Not well at all.
Queendragonfly · 31-35, F
CPTSD makes me very allergic to change but I have improved. Three years ago I could have a mental breakdown over a sudden change of plans. Or something unexpected but trivial like, someone took the laundry time I had planned. Or not finding a certain pair of jeans.

Today the change curves feels less dangerous and I have a chance to hit the break before ending up in a ditch.
bookerdana · M
Please describe this change you speak of 🤔 Trying a new dessert or finding myself homeless....sigh
bookerdana · M
Lilymoon · F
@bookerdana I love Bizarro 😄
bookerdana · M
@Lilymoon #metoo!
JustNik · 51-55, F
I’ve gotten much better at it over the last handful of years where I had no choice. Still do a lot of wistful sighing for what was, but at least I can acknowledge it won’t kill me and I’ll probably even get something cool out of it.
Lilymoon · F
@JustNik yep maybe lessons in disguise
Luckylu · 61-69, F
Well, I thought I handled breast cancer pretty well, then two years later I was laid off from a job I had for over 30 years, and at one point I thought it broke me. Now, big changes like that are very difficult, so the one I’m working on now, I’m taking in baby steps and so far so good. But when I first considered it, I did not handle it well. Basically, I don’t handle it well, and will wonder if at some point someone might have to collect the pieces that end up scattered to the winds.
icedsky · 51-55, M
Always Adaptable. Roll with the changes and stay on my feet.
Lilymoon · F
@icedsky nice
I'm set in my ways and like things to stay somewhat.....regular.
Raaii · 22-25, F
It's really hard to handle
I can't adjust atall
It makes me ill
Raaii · 22-25, F
@Lilymoon how it's good
Lilymoon · F
@Raaii when it's something you like....and benefits you
Raaii · 22-25, F
@Lilymoon yes I understand now
But a good change is rare
Most of the time it just ruins me
Though I know I'm the real cause of all these
Montanaman · M
Not well. 😔😫🤗🤗
I'll be ready for it by 2037.
BeJeweled · 61-69, F
It depends on what had changed.
If its relocating to another place I'm happy to change and enjoy new surroundings.
But if its habits that I've had all my life then I'll be a stubborn mule and wont budge!
With difficulty.
BalthazarBlake · 61-69, M
I got through one big change a few years ago, I'm sure nothing will match it for some time.
fun4us2b · M
Changes in life are expected, even predictable...people move on, pass on , jobs change, friends move away etc. so while it's one thing to to intellectualize, it's another from the emotional standpoint. I guess for me, since I am so used to chaos, my expectations allow me process change pretty well...Hope your changes are good ones.
Lilymoon · F
IamCuriousBabe · 51-55, F
The one I am going through is exhilarating but physically taxing.
ShadowWorker · 61-69, F
Good morning to you. Thank you for BC. ❤✌⚘
Lilymoon · F
@ShadowWorker Yw thanks for the wisdom
SW-User
I thrive in change
Lilymoon · F
@SW-User probably a good thing
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Magenta · F
Depends on what sort of change. Change in people's feelings, behavior or presence towards/with me, not well at all.
Some other types I welcome.
Lilymoon · F
@Magenta yep
Pretty well primarily because my life has always been in constant change..
@Lilymoon Well it is and it isn’t. I look forward to the day when things settle down and become a little more predictable..

Quite the light show last night!
Lilymoon · F
@Majorlatency yeah true...

And I know!!!! I was watching it for a while....cats and dogs 🤭
@Lilymoon Ha ha, I was at a Tiger Cats game last night, 2 hour rain delay, got soaked, i looked like a prune!

Mind you I looked like one before getting wet.

Anyway they were free tickets..
Vin53 · M
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Lilymoon · F
@Vin53 yep
Vin53 · M
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Lilymoon · F
@Vin53 turn and face the strain
Ontheroad · M
Typically I handle it well, even embrace it. I often say "The only constant in life is change".
Lilymoon · F
@Ontheroad that's great... and very true
SW-User
There are some changes that I love and try to make happen and others I dread. Usually, I'm moderately adaptable.
I put it in a big jar and save it. Then eventually when it gets full I cash it in for bills at the bank.
BobbyMoeven · 100+, M
@anythingoes477

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Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M
I don't think anyone likes change.
Some of us are just better at adapting
Lilymoon · F
JustEd · 41-45, M
I think from the outside it would appear pretty well. But, internally I’m a basket case
BobbyMoeven · 100+, M
I actually invite it .....

Not that it answers any of my calls 🙄
Lilymoon · F
@BobbyMoeven I get it!
JohnnyNoir · 56-60, M
Change is constant so you have to be adaptable of you get left behind
Lilymoon · F
@JohnnyNoir true dat
GBPackersFan · 41-45, M
It depends on the situation but I’ll never listen to todays music I’m an 80’s music fan
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
I eat change for breakfast. And, then I live change for lunch.
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
Terribly unless it's an instant change for the better.
Lumberjack70 · 56-60, M
Sometimes well, sometimes not so well. Tech changes drive me crazy. But I am enjoying other life changes and doing new things.
Fullmetal · 51-55, M
Accept, adapt, move forward!
Lilymoon · F
@Fullmetal nice
being · 36-40, F
By changing... Sometimes easier than others 🤗
SW-User
I put it in a 5 gallon water bottle then cash it in. 🙂
Lilymoon · F
@SW-User HAHAHA that's a lotta change ;)
SW-User
@Lilymoon that's what they say at the bank when I have them put it through their change counting machine.
Lilymoon · F
@SW-User haaaa no doubt 😧
Are you into ranking?
Lilymoon · F
@Lilymoon Alright!
SW-User
I don't mind it. I adjust pretty quickly.
WolfGirlwh0r3 · 36-40, T
I have pockets so loose change is no problem for me
calicuz · 56-60, M
I'm actually very easy going. 😎
Vodka like @beetlebumdont
Lilymoon · F
HoraceGreenley · 61-69, M
I have a yogurt container in the console of my car that i just throw it into
turnedtostone · 56-60, F
Depends on the change
GuyWithOpinions · 31-35, M
Depends on the change
UpsideOutInsideDown · 41-45, M
With a vengeance
MarineBob · 56-60, M
Obama ruined change
SW-User
Reasonably well. I used to live for it but now I appreciate stability and routine just as much

 
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