@Stereoguy awwwwwe... thank you!!! I'm sure it will help

@LadyBronte sorry?

@nobodyishome I was agreeing with her to try to change the negative mindset.

@OverTheHill this is super encouraging to read. Thank you.

@greensnacks Awwww thank you!

@CurrentName 12/13 years

@Mindful
If you've been married that long and he says he loves you, I think you're doing just fine.

@CurrentName Thank you

@Justmeraeagain you're right. X 2
Thank you for the positive framing

@AdmiralPrune I'm glad I'm closer to normal!

@Horace I'm sorry it made you feel that way. I hope you told her how you felt. My husband did. So I stopped questioning him aloud. I simply do my best to mentally accept his attention. This struggle is my mental health struggle. I don't want to put him thru what I am going thru. I'm surprised with this
Dilemma. I don't want to put it on him. And by not saying it aloud over the years hearing his kind words repeatedly, has truly helped me believe I am loved by him. He makes me believe many kind things about myself. But unfortunately, I still battle insecurities. I am so grateful I met him. He's an amazing man. I definitely don't want to lose him.

@Mindful I did tell her. It made no difference because of some things I said out of passion and frustration in the past, and I lost her. I blame myself. Life is easier that way.

@Horace xoxoxox Life. Relationships. It's not simple.

@nobodyishome I dont understand. Did you mean to post this elsewhere?

@jshm2 May I share some of my guesses?