Have you considered not having a partner and just being you for a long time until you find yourself in a mental space that is ready to work on, and or, find and create a healthy relationship?

Our exes say as much about us as about them. Do some soul searching and ask why you were attracted to those men. It could be something with your thinking.

Giving up isn't the answer. Realize that finding someone right involves lots of misses.

Remember the quote: A ship in harbour is safe, but that is not what ships are built for.
If you stay in your comfort zone you will be safe from harm, but have no chance of realizing your potential. That doesn't mean being reckless, but smart, brave, and not risk adverse.

Stop looking and you will find one

Well, there are billions of men on the planet. What’s your sample size? Have you mostly had much better experiences with women?

You can positively loathe them

Gets CatZ

You don't have a responsibility to like mankind.

The pool of men is not going well these days. Lots of nihilism. Addicted to porn at an early age. Positive male role model are pushed out of the home and out of society. Male spaces have been decimated by feminist infiltrators. We are all being poisoned by our food supply. SSRIs are rampant. What you are seeing is the beginning of the end. It will get much worse from here. Buy a cat and some boxed wine relax and watch it crumble into the sea