Jenny1234 · 56-60, F
Really · 80-89, M
A bank once mistakenly paid me out a second time on a single, substantial money order from overseas. They didn't correct it and I was tempted to say nothing but after a few weeks I informed them of the error, afraid that it would catch up with me later.
My honesty had its reward: They responded that they didn't make that kind of mistake and unless I had evidence to the contrary I should close my files on the matter. I did just that. I sometimes wish I could figure out how it happened, for potential future use :).
My honesty had its reward: They responded that they didn't make that kind of mistake and unless I had evidence to the contrary I should close my files on the matter. I did just that. I sometimes wish I could figure out how it happened, for potential future use :).
ButterRobot · 51-55, M
@ButterRobot yeah- let’s go ahead and say it’s 10-fold bc there are lots of ppl that do a good job and make sacrifices and their employers and coworkers abuse that kindness. That or they just expect you to do it every time for the same pay and treatment. It’s nice that you’re surrounded by people that recognize and care about you in the workplace. This is rare - a lot of environments these days are competitive and cutthroat.
4meAndyou · F
It was forgiveness with which I was blessed. I didn't think I was capable of it, but it is a VERY wonderful feeling...and I feel as though my spirit is now released from some type of bondage.
I was very angry with one of my neighbors, who has been very unkind. But once I found out she was hungry, I felt the anger melt away. I was able to get some people from my church to help me transport food, and we have now delivered food to at least six neighbors.
I was very angry with one of my neighbors, who has been very unkind. But once I found out she was hungry, I felt the anger melt away. I was able to get some people from my church to help me transport food, and we have now delivered food to at least six neighbors.
@4meAndyou wow good answer! I think we all take forgiveness for granted and even I struggle with this. It really does put things into perspective when you really understand the struggles of another and why they act the way they do. Glad you were able to forgive and help. I’m sure your neighbor is eternally grateful for what you’ve done.
4meAndyou · F
@DecafD 🤭 I think that would be asking a bit much, because I am quite sure she will knife me in the back again, but this time, I understand that she probably has dementia, and drives everyone nuts. It's not just me. 🙄 But it was a revelation that I could drop my own negative feelings that quickly.
@4meAndyou yeah people with dementia are moody, trying to piece together the fragments of their memories and getting constantly frustrated that they can’t recall or piece together things as they did before. Well…at least you’ve turned your cheek as they say. It’s always a good thing when you allow yourself to no longer let other people control how you feel. It’s a lot of energy to spend being upset with someone, while they’re sleeping like a baby not thinking of you at all.
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Ryansgrampy · 80-89, M
Yes, I gave up 1961 to 1967 to pull three tours of Vietnam, and received over 5 decades of self pride in exchange.
Lilnonames · F
I used to take pets home from the shelter.ones abused and beat and once they were healthy id take them home and get them used to being around humans again.well i was taking care of a great dane and a couple came to the shelter and want a good dog with kid's well they took this dog and it fell in love with there lil girl and they brought it by to show me and those to are wonderful that dog is great with that girl.itmade me feel great