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I help make peoples lives better talking on here. helping them with their problems. then they vanish. two examples. averageman he is being abused by his dad in multiple ways and I help him find ways to get his dad to treat him better by taking up weightlifting like his dad wanted and getting him to take up wrestling as dad wants him doing sports. then he goes totally silent. other guy is hello friend. I get him into lifting more and dressing better and awesome emails with him saying how much he likes getting emails from me each day and how much he looks forward to each message and likes me a lot. then he suddenly blocks me for no reason. I been reading our messages over and over and over and everything is fine in them he likes me a lot. I was always nice and helpful with him. so what do I do? just give up on helping people and give up on comeing on here???
Brandon101 · 26-30, M Best Comment
You still helped them. And from my experience trust me they appreciated it
trackboy · 22-25, M
@Brandon101 @Brandon101 I have helped many people. still waiting for email from you. 😺

NotAfraidofAnything · 26-30, M
Hey would you like to chat? I'm pretty bored.
Kind of a dick move to mention these people by username. It would have been wise to be anonymous about it.
trackboy · 22-25, M
@QueenOfTheDemonRealm just don't know what to do. several that read the mails told me to call the cops. but there could be blow back on me even though he is 18
@trackboy so you sent private messages to others to read. Dick move bro
Lukeman · M
I'm not sure encouraging someone being abused to give the abuser something they want such as taking up weightlifting and wrestling which he may have no real interest in is good advice. I've found not giving abusers what they want to be a better way of dealing with them, but I had no personal interactions with this member so I don't know the whole story. Why do some people suddenly want to stop an online relationship? There are multiple reasons. I've noticed in messaging you that you ask many questions and I sometimes don't feel like answering them all. People become tired at some point and don't wish to interact anymore. It's not something to be taken personally. I tend to write very long messages that some people don't want to take the time to read so they don't respond. People will not always react the way you want them to which is very true in the real world as well as on Similar Worlds. I've cried over people not being as nice or caring or interested in me as I would want them to. There are people I regret ever having met and others I wish I had more time to spend with. Now I just read this averageman's response and see his problems were fabricated. That's not something you caused and it's the fault of the other member to cause you this distress.
trackboy · 22-25, M
@Lukeman don't you like talking with people???
Lukeman · M
Yes, I do.
trackboy · 22-25, M
@Lukeman i would like talking with you
I lied to my friend Trackboy, I feel bad about it. I said that dad had me working on a ranch but i made that up to pretend that I didn't have time for similar worlds because i didn't really want to be on. I also exaggerated saying that dad forced me to hold my pee, he never did, again i made this up to impress Trackboy. My dad has never done anything to hurt me, and he has never done anything inappropriate to me. I can't believe that any of this happened. Im sorry for all this confusion.
Silverwings · 61-69, F
@averageman I am really glad that you apologized, however it was very mean of you to do this to another human being, this young man is just that a young man, and how is he supposed to be wise enough to know you were BS'ing him? I am not sure that I would have been wise enough to understand your sick humor.
WithClouds · 36-40, M
@averageman These kinds of things don't "impress" people, they make people sympathetic. Apparently you want / need / love attention, but you'd get (slightly) more respect if you found more honest ways of seeking it. Also, to take advantage of someone like that, who wants to help, is a scumbag move. You should probably overdose. :3
Silverwings · 61-69, F
@WithClouds No that is mean too!!
SW-User
So you just told everyone on SW their personal secrets?
@averageman Glad to see it was fake. But looks like you need a different hobby, friend. Never know the psychos you meet online that would track you down thinking you're being real.
Peaches · F
@averageman But you shouldn't have done that, see what happenes...karma.👀
Silverwings · 61-69, F
@averageman That is disgusting & MEAN.
Lukeman · M
It might be better to find people in the real world to help out. I read how someone simply made up problems for you to solve. It happens in a place like this.
trackboy · 22-25, M
@Lukeman are you good at helping people??
Lukeman · M
I do the best I can. It depends on the situation.
trackboy · 22-25, M
@Lukeman awesome you helpaweosme atewutoiaweutoaweiutaoweiugoawiuegoweituwaoeut help people out. why does this site freeze up??
coary987 · M
Never give up on them they need guys like you buddy.
He mite not be aloud to de on hear a lot get told that
Silverwings · 61-69, F
@coary987 Yes, always, as who else is going to if you do not?
Silverwings · 61-69, F
@coary987 Yes, it should be a two way street, if not there will be problems.
coary987 · M
@Silverwings exactly
Drifter15 · 26-30, M
Nah man don’t take it personal. People that are abused see things in a different light. Most would rather separate themselves from people in general. Even if they disappeared and stuff you talking to them probably helped them work through some stuff and sometimes thats all you can hope for ^_^
trackboy · 22-25, M
@Drifter15 it is still frustrating that I put so much into talking with him and he vanished. 🎃 I would think they would want friends in their lives. 😺
Drifter15 · 26-30, M
@trackboy they do... It's just hard ya know? Trusting people and stuff. And even then there's some really messed up individuals, who, no matter what you say, believe themselves to wholly be nothing but a burden on others. They'll carry a relationship or a companionship for a long time. Then one day, they relapse with terror and paranoia and they fear that their brokenness will somehow impair the ones they care about and push them away. It's not your fault, sometimes it just happens. Don't blame yourself, take pride in the fact that you tried to do the right thing and help. Most people wouldn't even do that. So perk up ^_^
trackboy · 22-25, M
@Drifter15 it still bites big time
Peaches · F
There are a lot of catfishes here, 🐟️ I used to be helpful as much as I could with people and their problems but not anymore. Many are just emotional vampires, trying to drain the life out of you with their endless problems. No more of that for this girl!👎🏼
Silverwings · 61-69, F
No no no, never give up, just learn to go with the flow, and not get discouraged.
I AM NOT BEING ABUSED. I JUST EXAGGERATED A LOT. I AM FINE.
Silverwings · 61-69, F
@averageman Shame on you!!
SW-User
Funny when one lunatic has conversations with himself on an opem board. Pitiful actually.
@SW-User Another multiaccount? I hate those.Fills up my blocks so fast.
jimjim1969 · M
That's to bad, but every body is different, Some inner thing. Just be yourself with others
No. Don’t give up. You’re too good a person.
trackboy · 22-25, M
@shirtless111 its frustrating though.
I bet it is. At least you were trying.
trackboy · 22-25, M
@shirtless111 i help people a lot.
It could be that he didn't block you but the site program did but did he blocked email from you,
Darkcuckoo · 26-30, M
Well I just got your PM. It would be nice to meet you and I apologize for the delay.
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
OMG... this is like the 10th time you've posted this in the last 7 months.
@MarkPaul Yeah,it keeps popping up.
ISMELLPROTEINPOWDER · 22-25, M
Drama much that's not exactly what it is if something bad happens block them
deevan11 · 31-35, M
Stop chasing people who don't have time for you
Silverwings · 61-69, F
@deevan11 Averageman led him on.
Lol no you don't
SW-User
Fucking demon
SW-User
Do you? Ha
Virgo79 · 61-69, M
trackboy · 22-25, M
@Virgo79 yes I helped a lot of people. 😺

 
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