i help make peoples lives better

I help make peoples lives better talking on here. helping them with their problems. then they vanish. two examples. averageman he is being abused by his dad in multiple ways and I help him find ways to get his dad to treat him better by taking up weightlifting like his dad wanted and getting him to take up wrestling as dad wants him doing sports. then he goes totally silent. other guy is hello friend. I get him into lifting more and dressing better and awesome emails with him saying how much he likes getting emails from me each day and how much he looks forward to each message and likes me a lot. then he suddenly blocks me for no reason. I been reading our messages over and over and over and everything is fine in them he likes me a lot. I was always nice and helpful with him. so what do I do? just give up on helping people and give up on comeing on here???

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Lukeman · M

I'm not sure encouraging someone being abused to give the abuser something they want such as taking up weightlifting and wrestling which he may have no real interest in is good advice. I've found not giving abusers what they want to be a better way of dealing with them, but I had no personal interactions with this member so I don't know the whole story. Why do some people suddenly want to stop an online relationship? There are multiple reasons. I've noticed in messaging you that you ask many questions and I sometimes don't feel like answering them all. People become tired at some point and don't wish to interact anymore. It's not something to be taken personally. I tend to write very long messages that some people don't want to take the time to read so they don't respond. People will not always react the way you want them to which is very true in the real world as well as on Similar Worlds. I've cried over people not being as nice or caring or interested in me as I would want them to. There are people I regret ever having met and others I wish I had more time to spend with. Now I just read this averageman's response and see his problems were fabricated. That's not something you caused and it's the fault of the other member to cause you this distress.

trackboy · 22-25, M

@Lukeman questions are how i get to know people and i answer long emails all the time.

Lukeman · M

Yes, I remember that.

trackboy · 22-25, M

@Lukeman don't you like talking with people???

Lukeman · M

Yes, I do.

trackboy · 22-25, M

@Lukeman i would like talking with you