i help make peoples lives better

I help make peoples lives better talking on here. helping them with their problems. then they vanish. two examples. averageman he is being abused by his dad in multiple ways and I help him find ways to get his dad to treat him better by taking up weightlifting like his dad wanted and getting him to take up wrestling as dad wants him doing sports. then he goes totally silent. other guy is hello friend. I get him into lifting more and dressing better and awesome emails with him saying how much he likes getting emails from me each day and how much he looks forward to each message and likes me a lot. then he suddenly blocks me for no reason. I been reading our messages over and over and over and everything is fine in them he likes me a lot. I was always nice and helpful with him. so what do I do? just give up on helping people and give up on comeing on here???

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Drifter15 · 26-30, M

Nah man don’t take it personal. People that are abused see things in a different light. Most would rather separate themselves from people in general. Even if they disappeared and stuff you talking to them probably helped them work through some stuff and sometimes thats all you can hope for ^_^

trackboy · 22-25, M

@Drifter15 it is still frustrating that I put so much into talking with him and he vanished. 🎃 I would think they would want friends in their lives. 😺

Drifter15 · 26-30, M

@trackboy they do... It's just hard ya know? Trusting people and stuff. And even then there's some really messed up individuals, who, no matter what you say, believe themselves to wholly be nothing but a burden on others. They'll carry a relationship or a companionship for a long time. Then one day, they relapse with terror and paranoia and they fear that their brokenness will somehow impair the ones they care about and push them away. It's not your fault, sometimes it just happens. Don't blame yourself, take pride in the fact that you tried to do the right thing and help. Most people wouldn't even do that. So perk up ^_^

trackboy · 22-25, M

@Drifter15 it still bites big time