it's very frustrating when someone says they care about you but their actions speak otherwise

YES. This is where people lose me quickly nowadays. Done with those actions not matching words.

Yes it is which can make trusting people very challenging.

I definitely feel that. I’ve been going out of my way to be relevant in someone else’s life and when I stopped reaching out I almost never hear from them.

I know what that’s like all too well. 😒

I don't trust words
I trust actions

Well, we care about you.

I think people get mixed up with their emotions. A way to judge the situation is! under the surface there is genuine love but above it's a train wreck. Nothing funnier than folk.

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listen to their actions