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Just what is wrong with the society i live in

I feel most men are bad bcuz they don't hold bad men who try to predate on women accountable for their actions or take action on them, instead they make excuses for them until they go and do something more badder, sometimes i feel most men r hiding something from women or they are also same.

One guy told me only 10% men r bad, 90% are good. But the 10% look for women/girls/victims more so women tend to come across bad men more. I think he is wrong bcuz if most men are good, why is our society like this !? Why do other men stand there and do nothing, why can't they hold bad men accountable if most men r good?!?

I feel men r predating on women instead of protecting women
Could you please explain the situation?

Where did you get the data from? There are both bad men and women in our society.
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@littlepuppywantanewlife ok i will try report them !
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@littlepuppywantanewlife some of them i don't remember their faces and some of them left i think
@sahi81 find a solution. Be strong 💪
dale74 · M
Well you've got to consider everything out there. You are correct there are bad men and there are good men I would say there are probably only 10% that are bad and probably since it are good the rest don't follow any logic they just follow the crowd. But you got to consider the Good Men and what has happened to us over the years we are told by women everyday we don't need you we're told by women everyday we can do just fine without you. Women don't say thank you when you hold the door open for them anymore. You compliment a woman and she says you're sexually harassing her all you said was her dress look nice. It's got into where when a good man tries to do anything he slapped across the face with what he just did. If a woman is being harassed and that's the same woman who just told him I don't need your help well why should he put his neck on the line he gets into a fight with the bad guy there's the possibility he could end up dead for someone that doesn't even respect him. There are a lot of women out there that do not respect men one bit. I hear women all the time that love the date the bad boy they don't want the good guy that's going to take care of them they don't want that guy until they've already gotten knocked up by the bad guy. But yes good men should stand up to bad men but there's a lot out there who will not take that risk anymore unless it is a woman that they truly know and respect and knows that that woman respects them.
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@dale74 idk about good or bad, but decent men r 50% from my opinion and observation. But they not doing anything
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@dale74 i live in India.
@sahi81 that explains everything
Equal rights. It’s not our place to protect women anymore. Women are supposed to do it themselves. So we’re looking for a different role now we aren’t needed.
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sahi81 · 22-25, F
@DazzaTheHutt i never met, i don't talk to men much for my own safety. But around me, men who come across 1 in 5 of them r worst! Maybe it depends on country or the type of areas.
UndeadSona · F
I mean let's take that 10% argument right?

This society has laws so what exactly are we supposed to do with those 10%? We cannot preemptively do anything to people for what is essentially thought crimes. We also cannot dispense our own justice. That means outside of protecting myself or someone else in the moment I cannot do anything too these people. No matter what they've done.

Then let's imagine a part of that 10% are within positions of societal power and between that and indifference how do you expect anything else from our society?

You should not rely on society at large to keep you safe. Humans are not perfect so our society is flawed as well. You just gotta protect yourself and be prepared to fight to the death.
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justanotherone · 51-55, M
I am not totally sure what you mean by bad men. If they are criminals then it’s down to the justice system. If it’s about how they treat women then it’s probably cultural.
I don’t think it is the same in every country.
justanotherone · 51-55, M
@sahi81 I think Europe is a good choice. I live in Europe and been living in UK too.
You will be much safer, much more protected and much more equal in society than you are now.
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@justanotherone i thought u are from US
justanotherone · 51-55, M
@sahi81 No, I have never been to US.
Men are no better or worse than women.. but i think there should be harsher penalties to predators and abusers.. they certainly shouldn't be given bail or excused ..
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@SStarfish as a consequence .... everyone cares about the money they make
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@SStarfish i think their salary should be donated to make punishment/jail to them stricter, mental treatments for them and protection for women
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@SStarfish i heard in the country i live, police r under-paid and over worked
Socialism would protect the next generation from the next exploitation. Americans battled to kill that option.
@Roundandroundwego Yes. But unfortunately that's not the case in other countries.
@littlepuppywantanewlife no country is free from US domination at present. Do you know about the global economy and your eight hundred military installations abroad? Globally, you Force the capitalist system and austerity on everyone. Europe is your dog - in recession again for war.
@Roundandroundwego wow! Don't change the topic. 🤓

 
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