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Just what is wrong with the society i live in

I feel most men are bad bcuz they don't hold bad men who try to predate on women accountable for their actions or take action on them, instead they make excuses for them until they go and do something more badder, sometimes i feel most men r hiding something from women or they are also same.

One guy told me only 10% men r bad, 90% are good. But the 10% look for women/girls/victims more so women tend to come across bad men more. I think he is wrong bcuz if most men are good, why is our society like this !? Why do other men stand there and do nothing, why can't they hold bad men accountable if most men r good?!?

I feel men r predating on women instead of protecting women

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littlepuppywantanewlife · 31-35, M

Could you please explain the situation?

Where did you get the data from? There are both bad men and women in our society.

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sahi81 · 26-30, F

@littlepuppywantanewlife yes but men r the ones who are meant to put consequences for other men,most men r police and even men have more physcal strngth to fight other men. Most men around seem afraid to say anything to bad men when they pass comments on women's body parts. Instead they make excuses for bad behaviours of men. But tell women to protect themselves. Even at day light women can't feel safe

littlepuppywantanewlife · 31-35, M

@sahi81 Unfortunately there are no laws passed to limit or prohibit men to talk about woman's body. I understand your concern is related to those people who see mens or females body as objects. I been through the situation where it's really uncomfortable and unfortunately nothing can be done. In our society if bad mouth word is passed and if someone tries to stop it, it turns into physical violence. Both our holy books have a story where women's beauty have outbreak war.

In other countries (Muslim/Islamic) women are made to wear burqa so they are fully covered and only at home their spouse can see them

Talking about law. Our society is ruled by power and corruption.

sahi81 · 26-30, F

@littlepuppywantanewlife they don't care if women is beautiful or not as long as they have body parts! they even pass comments on ugly women if she have body parts

sahi81 · 26-30, F

@littlepuppywantanewlife why can't good men gang up with physcial violence to stop bad men... if good men r more

littlepuppywantanewlife · 31-35, M

@sahi81 did somebody made bad comments on you?

If men ganged up and did violence they will be sent to jail. Since there was no physical exploitation there would be blood and murders.

sahi81 · 26-30, F

@littlepuppywantanewlife i am tired of apathy of this society.

And yes, few men passed comments on me near the tea stall near bus stand, and also once few tried to give me unasked help. How creepy it is

littlepuppywantanewlife · 31-35, M

@sahi81 I am sorry you have to face this. The locality or the bus stand is not a good area. Can't compare those men at tea stall with rest of the country.

sahi81 · 26-30, F

@littlepuppywantanewlife if u r good, next time u see such bad men on roads.... gang up on them together with all those 90% good men, these won't be any murders if come in majoirty groups. I think many men, even good men r being misogynistic towards women saying things like she deserved it bcuz she stand at same place there for long so grabbed attention

littlepuppywantanewlife · 31-35, M

@sahi81 who says "she deserved it"?

sahi81 · 26-30, F

@littlepuppywantanewlife i heard some men gossip

sahi81 · 26-30, F

@littlepuppywantanewlife maybe they r also bad men. My problem is my good men not as loud as bad men when talking, i feel bad is more in our society

littlepuppywantanewlife · 31-35, M

@sahi81 do people decide your faith and future? Do what people gossip about you defines the reality?

sahi81 · 26-30, F

@littlepuppywantanewlife no but.... why r good men not doing anything if they r the majoirty, i think most r not good.... how much men u think r good and bad

littlepuppywantanewlife · 31-35, M

@sahi81 ok tell me why don't woman do anything about it if they are so good and as per you there are no good men in your locality? It seems like gossip from some men at tea stall had make you think overall all men are bad in the society. Do you think your brother is a good or a bad person?

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littlepuppywantanewlife · 31-35, M

@sahi81 Also there are many cases of woman abuse and violence over some poor guy that people are uncertain if that girl will trap them or not.

There are many things

sahi81 · 26-30, F

@littlepuppywantanewlife he is bad ! And why is that...

sahi81 · 26-30, F

@littlepuppywantanewlife i am taking about women rights, why r men against it. Blame women for wearing full gown or wearing make up if any guy passes comments. Men even suppress women sexuality

littlepuppywantanewlife · 31-35, M

@sahi81 you don't live in a good society.

There are also cases of events like this. I am sure you are not aware of women misusing laws.

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littlepuppywantanewlife · 31-35, M

@sahi81 Nobody comments on women wearing makeup. There are places where women are complimented for looks and treated generously.

sahi81 · 26-30, F

@littlepuppywantanewlife here where i live, they comment on dress, women's sexuality, etc

See, i had some bad experiences with women too, i too women also should be accountable and not play women-card. We should check before we arrest men

India have dely in justice problem which is bad

littlepuppywantanewlife · 31-35, M

@sahi81 there are some personal stories which I can't post on public comments.

sahi81 · 26-30, F

@littlepuppywantanewlife don't post in private either... i heard of such stories many, it happened to me personally too by one aunties i wrote about in my first post

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sahi81 · 26-30, F

@littlepuppywantanewlife i don't think scooter would work.... i want to see consequences put on those men. They r being cowardly sometimes. Most of them can't pass comments on me directly

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