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Would you regard this as flirting

My last post has apparently got some thinking my boss that is literally twice my age is flirting with me
We have constant sarcastic banter and take jabs at each other (as he does with everyone that can handle it) and people think him calling me a brat was him flirting??

The bar must be low these days idk
ChiefJustWalks · 26-30
I don't think it's flirting because I joke with people all the time whether I know them or not 🤷 but then again people often call me a flirt so maybe I'm wrong lol

None of us on the internet can really tell anyway because we don't know him, you, or how y'all interact. Plus some people think anything can be flirting based on their own experiences but we all flirt & interact in different ways so what's "flirting" to one person, might not be "flirting" to another
It all comes down to context and often body language that is clearly absent here.

It could go either way depending on the individuals.

One of my best friends and I are like that and for years people were convinced I was dating her.
@Jordayray You are both adults. If he is married though that is more a red flag on his end.
Jordayray · 26-30, F
@PicturesOfABetterTomorrow yeah 20+ is a never
But
@Jordayray Well good luck with sorting it all out.
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
if he is flirting with you that's highly inappropriate if he's your boss.
SW-User
@Justmeraeagain Agree completely!
Jordayray · 26-30, F
@Justmeraeagain i still think flirting is a reach lol but yes i agree
JRVanguard · 26-30, M
I flirt by standing awkwardly in the corner

So anything is possible
Jordayray · 26-30, F
@JRVanguard lmfaooo
JRVanguard · 26-30, M
@Jordayray 🧍

Is it working?👀
SW-User
The bar is in hell. There are people on this planet that think smiling at someone and being kind is flirting 😴
Different · 31-35, M
Im not going back & fourth with any female jokingly unless i. trying to flirt plus im careful cause im.not getting fired for SH so for me to do all that would be me flirting cause i think your reciprocateing it lol
Jordayray · 26-30, F
@Different hes married with kids my age
Different · 31-35, M
@Jordayray lol have u worked alotta jobs ? Alotta men be cheating on they wife's old age and with kids with hella chicks at work all the time. I seen alotta weird stuff from managers from male and female and co workers messing aroind while married and in realtionships, nothing is off limits these days.
@Jordayray that doesnt matter. Hes flirting subtly
Adogslife · 61-69, M
I’m confused. If you don’t think he’s flirting, then what was the purpose of the post? If he’s 100% not flirting, you wouldn’t write the post unless you were trying to garner attention.

If there is doubt, somebody’s flirting.
Jordayray · 26-30, F
@Adogslife lol chill
Its a post asking a question because of the last
He called you a brat because he can and you let him get away with it. It’s not really a compliment and usually an insult but because you took it light, he probably thinks he can start flirting with you or get you to do any work he wants in the first place.
Convivial · 26-30, F
Harmless fun...
SW-User
I think he needs to grow up, to be perfectly honest. I know i sound a little old fashioned but work is work and he is your boss. .. and he's twice yoir age.
DHggmu · 31-35, M
Most men think any interaction with females is flirting, more so in hope, so that they can think women are flirting with them when having banter.
SilentSaturn · 26-30, M
Guys are always flirting if they're straight. Don't be so naive as to think it's above any one of them.
Tumbleweed · F
People take even the smallest things & turn them into a full blown affair, especially at work.
I banter alot , sarcasm too. I hate to admit this but yes its flirting. Even the brat part.
Jordayray · 26-30, F
@IWantANewLife am i just naive
How is that flirting
Sapio · 51-55, M
I read your last post and yes, I think he was flirting.
sp1dwoOfe221 · 31-35, M
whooo caaarrressss
@sp1dwoOfe221 thats rude. She is asking for opinions. Dont be self centered . Others need help to talk to .
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caccoon · 36-40
That's disgusting and he shouldn't be doing that because of the power dynamic.
Jordayray · 26-30, F
@caccoon lmfao whoa whoa
caccoon · 36-40
@Jordayray just be careful
Jordayray · 26-30, F
@caccoon lol its an overreaction its okay i promise
Justenjoyit · 61-69, M
One can live in hope lol
BigGuy2 · 26-30, M
Yes low, banter should be funny or positive
Jordayray · 26-30, F
@BigGuy2 also it was funny
BigGuy2 · 26-30, M
@Jordayray the bar must be low
BigGuy2 · 26-30, M
@Jordayray oh well 🤷🏼‍♂🤷🏼‍♂🤷🏼‍♂

 
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