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I miss passive video chatting...

Many years ago I had a friend I regularly video called with for hours. We didn't talk all that time, but kept the connection open to watch each other on the side while we did some chores, with the occasional remark or question back and forth. (Mostly in writing because talking is difficult and tiring.)

It was a great way to keep each other motivated and productive longer than we did on our own, as well as a good way to get to know each other better by only asking questions when we had some rather than feeling forced to keep a conversation going continuously, as well as seeing facial expressions.

It didn't last because they were bipolar and questioned my honesty every other day, and when they got involved in scams and didn't want to be saved, I couldn't watch that unfold anymore. I do miss the kind of support and interaction of the good times though and wish I could have that with someone else again. (Although maybe not as long nowadays.)
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RunTheJulz · 46-50, F
I used to do something similar with a friend when I was younger (35-38ish) we were so enthralled with each other that we would keep our calls going for as long as possible and it would often turn into one of us listening to the other person sleeping. It made so much sense to us because we were not close enough to see each other often and we both needed to feel as connected as possible. I’m not sure how else to explain it but it was very sweet to hear someone that you care about as they slip into their different sleeping states. I miss the feeling of being so totally enamored with someone that I lost any and all of my self consciousness and sharing the time we had was all that mattered. I don’t know if I can ever get back to this place with someone again?? I hope so but it has to be authentic or it’s best left in my past…
SW-User
Seems like you both were close.

Mine gets busier by the months and is getting married soon. Looking for a new one.
@SW-User I'm sorry... Marriage changes a lot... Let me know if you'd like to give it a try with me.
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@NerdyPotato I'm too homesless. If you're still around once I settle then sure :)
@SW-User ok, I hope you'll find a stable place soon. (And not just to video chat, but for your wellbeing too.)
I did a version of this with my ex. It was nice to have the company. But then I became obsessive and ruined it. 🙃
@Nadie oh no 😭 Maybe we should give it a try then. I'm always complaining that my friends aren't online 16 hours a day like me. 😅
@NerdyPotato be ready to see the bf walking around in the background in his underwear.
@Nadie we can all be in our underwear, especially in this heat 😌
AngelKrish · 26-30, M
I miss this too
@BridgeOvertroubledWaters at some point it became that way a little.
@NerdyPotato did you ever meet up ?
@BridgeOvertroubledWaters no, it only stayed online.
Selah ·
I had a friend like this but then he got a gf and forgot about me 💀
@Selah that's so sad... But it seems to happen a lot with people getting into a relationship. 🥲
Chxscx · 31-35, F
I kinda like this thought too
Chxscx · 31-35, F
@NerdyPotato yes thst one!
@Chxscx ok, want to get to know each better?
Chxscx · 31-35, F
@NerdyPotato sure. 🙂
mooncrest02 · 31-35, F
I do this sometimes with my phone on speaker and chat to a friend or my sister while i do things around the house. It is really nice. :)
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Kind of like leaving the TV on for noise
@SW-User yes, kind of. Except it's much more interactive and a tv won't hold you accountable.
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SW-User
Mmm maybe pick someone sane next time. ( I say that kindly )
@SW-User I've been looking, but without success 😅
I'm back from vacation and need encouragement to catch up on chores more than ever, so the search for someone meeting the description in this post is back on!

 
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