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I miss passive video chatting...

Many years ago I had a friend I regularly video called with for hours. We didn't talk all that time, but kept the connection open to watch each other on the side while we did some chores, with the occasional remark or question back and forth. (Mostly in writing because talking is difficult and tiring.)

It was a great way to keep each other motivated and productive longer than we did on our own, as well as a good way to get to know each other better by only asking questions when we had some rather than feeling forced to keep a conversation going continuously, as well as seeing facial expressions.

It didn't last because they were bipolar and questioned my honesty every other day, and when they got involved in scams and didn't want to be saved, I couldn't watch that unfold anymore. I do miss the kind of support and interaction of the good times though and wish I could have that with someone else again. (Although maybe not as long nowadays.)
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RunTheJulz · 46-50, F
I used to do something similar with a friend when I was younger (35-38ish) we were so enthralled with each other that we would keep our calls going for as long as possible and it would often turn into one of us listening to the other person sleeping. It made so much sense to us because we were not close enough to see each other often and we both needed to feel as connected as possible. I’m not sure how else to explain it but it was very sweet to hear someone that you care about as they slip into their different sleeping states. I miss the feeling of being so totally enamored with someone that I lost any and all of my self consciousness and sharing the time we had was all that mattered. I don’t know if I can ever get back to this place with someone again?? I hope so but it has to be authentic or it’s best left in my past…