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We need New Users! => New Users are all Fake!

SW users: We need more New users here!

• New, unique, real individuals, routinely join SimilarWorlds each day.

• New Users become more apparent with the addition of the "NEW" tag.

...
SW users: No way these are really New Users!
They must all be Alt Accounts and Catfish!



Is there any surprise at why most new users don't stick around?
when they are frequently Judged, Bullied, and told they are all "Fake"?


As SW Admins, we can see and confirm that the vast Majority of these "New Users" are indeed real, unique individuals.
(We can tell by the referring sources they come from, their IP/Device info, etc...)



Additional Note:

Please refrain from making chastising comments on user's posts, about their interests/preferences.


We have observed many new users join here, post about something they are interested in or seeking,
then immediately made to feel unwelcome about sharing their personal interests, by other established users of this site.

(This naturally, quickly pushes many new users away from returning to SW.)


As long as their interests are Not Illegal, and Not against the SW TOS to share/talk about, other users have no businesses in bullying them about what they share.

If the post indeed is against SW's TOS or not legal, then kindly Report the incident.


We've even sadly seen some users ask for Advice about difficult situations, then be shunned or dismissed as being Fake or Lying.

(There are still thankfully, numerous users who do behave in a kind and appropriate manner, and do respond with sincere and helpful comments.)
Pfuzylogic · M
Some very timely observations of how many new users can be treated here.
i personally am glad you sent out this alert.
LadyGrace · 70-79
ABSOLUTELY TRUE!! I'm glad you put this up it was much needed. Thank you so much!
eyeno · M
👍 totally agree..!
helenS · 36-40, F
I should like to point out that I welcomed many new users with my favorite tulip! 🌷
Slade · 56-60, M
@helenS I ❤️ tulips! Especially on my organ 🤤
@helenS Yeah, but it's not a REAL tulip. 😂
helenS · 36-40, F
SumKindaMunster · 51-55, M
Sorry...I'll try to be more welcoming to new users.

We are a jaded bunch, and we have seen a LOT of fakes, scammers, and just deranged people take advantage of our good intentions when offering advice and assistance.

But I like the NEW tag, and I will be more cognizant to extend a welcoming hand to the newbies here...we were all new once....
LadyGrace · 70-79
@SumKindaMunster Yes we have Kind Munster. We've had a lot going on at this site with trolls and what have you. Too bad Trolls are not just automatically tossed out because they don't belong here and we don't want them here, but here they are and all they do is disrupt this site and I say, after all the bull we've had to go through with these idiots, I say we put a stop to these ignorant trolls because we obviously know their agenda. And the way to do that is to not even answer them when they show up to answer one of your posts and I'm talking about any of our posts here. It's time to Stamp Out the trolls! If everyone would cooperate and completely ignore these trolls, not even answering them are there snide remarks just to cause disruption in this forum, then we wouldn't have all this disturbance. What I do now and it works, and I wish everyone would do, is the minute they come on my post acting ignorant, I don't even answer their first reply under my post now because I know who they are and even if I don't know them I know how a troll behaves and I know what to watch for as usual. Here are my rules and they work. I just wish everyone would follow:

Never answer bullies/trolls.

No response-----PERIOD!!! NO MATTER WHAT THEY SAY.

NO CONTACT, IN ANY WAY, SHAPE OR FORM.

DELETE THEIR FIRST REPLY TO YOUR POST, THEN BLOCK THEM.

This has given me a delightful, happy experience now here. We do not have to put up with these kindergarteners who have nothing better with their time than to bully people. This is a serious offense! This is not a game. Because we have seen people get hurt, people leave, people bullied so much they become suicidal. I have seen this and I have seen those most beautiful people leave here, because of these insecure trolls.
Magnolia21 · 22-25, F
I can see that. Hard to prove you're "real" when you get harassed by dozens of guys that think you want their sausage and demand pics (hasn't happened yet, but common on other sites).
robb65 · 56-60, M
@Magnolia21 I uhh, may have suggested there was a rule requiring new users to post nudes. It was meant as a joke. That said, obviously you are a real person but some of the other new profiles look a bit suspicious. I'm not going to block random people just cause they are new but I'm keeping my eyes open. I can remember a time on Quora when multiple new profiles showed up overnight and some of them used the same profile pic. Never figured out what game they were trying to play.....
Carissimi · F
How long do you keep the “New” label? @Magnolia21
@Magnolia21 admin have put on a real good safe guard - no-one can send you a pic of their sausage unless you enter into a conversation with them. What used to be good is that you could go into their groups and you would know if they were dodgy by seeing the groups they had ascribed to. Now, however, they are able to hide their groups so it may not be as easy to tell..... if they do send you unwarranted images do report them!
GLITTER · 36-40, F
I’m sorry I called them alts 😭😭😭
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Lostpoet · M
Sorry😔I'll stop trolling the new users.
cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
@Lostpoet Where is the fun in that.
caPnAhab · 26-30, M
Ah ya'll members are impossible to please
GJOFJ3 · 61-69, M
Great points. Thanks
Nanori · F
Lmao yes dad
@Nanori Well, if we behave like little brats...
I'm glad you posted this.
chelseabi · 22-25, F
well said, without new users we end up talking to the same people and although some are really nice others are idiots so I welcome all new users unless there bothersome, but most are not and the ones that are instead putting rubbish about them you can always place them on ignore or block them, so I personnel’s welcome new users
ImRileyTheDog · 22-25, F
Can the people who’ve been here a long time have a cool tag too?
ImRileyTheDog · 22-25, F
@Elessar “geriatric”
Elessar · 26-30, M
@ImRileyTheDog I'd proudly wear that one when engaging in political fights
@ImRileyTheDog "Elder"😆
Imsleepy · 31-35
Why even mention the TOS when you rarely enforce it?
SumKindaMunster · 51-55, M
@Imsleepy I'm not tired at all, this is highly amusing to me actually.

I guess we'll just have to agree to disagree then.

You should strive for better rebuttals than "I know you are but what am I". 😂
Imsleepy · 31-35
I guess we'll just have to agree to disagree then.
Clearly.

You should strive for better rebuttals than "I know you are but what am I".
If the shoe fits…
@SumKindaMunster
SumKindaMunster · 51-55, M
@Imsleepy I look forward to repeating this conversation when I see you whining about being a victim while you attack others. 😆
SW-User
Great post! This has always been a largely welcoming community with only a few people with too little restraint to avoid being a jerk. Would love to see the number of mute/block accounts go up. Never thought I'd have to use it much here but unfortunately between underage people and aggressive trolls it is a growing block list.
I agree…. I think we should all remember when we were a new user to a social site and how great it felt if we were welcomed by the older users and how awful it felt if we were unkindly treated….

We should not judged without any evidence…

anyway I don’t see anything wrong with supposedly new users not being really new, and as long as they don't cause anyone any problem with their new accounts…,
helenS · 36-40, F
@Soossie Wholeheartedly agree with you Soossie.
@JustGoneNow Beautiful profile picture! A heart made by hand.
@helenS

Thank you lovely Helen… 🤗🤗🌹
@Soossie hey, my friend. ily and have missed you. 🖤🤗

@helenS 💯. Perhaps, a friend like you. 🖤🤗
AuRevoir · 36-40, M
I mean I believe a lot might be new..

But they’re also aligning with the same boring fetish content that none of us really care for…

And even if they’re new person, doesn’t necessarily mean they’re not another weirdo on the internet pretending to be something they’re not.. just like former users here have been..

We want new Normies I think is what most people are referencing when they say that..

Hopefully we catch a few.. 👀☕️ Why does SW suddenly feel like extreme fishing??
Thank you for the work you do here. Be safe and be well. 🦋
itsok · 31-35, F
This is giving parent-frustrated-with-kid-who-never-stops-whining
itsok · 31-35, F
@helenS I’m not saying he’s wrong. The tone is still frustrated parent. And the whining is nonstop.
helenS · 36-40, F
@itsok

Typical aging SW users on their balcony seats, with their cantankerous opinions about everything, not liking anything but showing up all the time nevertheless, and bursting into mutual laughter at their own witticisms.
And EP was so much better 😏
@itsok @helenS 🖤🤗
Thanks for the reminder, Andrew.
We should all remember how we felt the first time we joined sw (or any other site)

It’s difficult being the new kid… sometimes it’s difficult being an existing one.
SW-User
@helenS I think that was her point actually.
helenS · 36-40, F
@SW-User Unfortunately some are being attacked right from the start now.
SW-User
@helenS that's just plain crazy!
AlyAngel · F
Beautifully written, but really sad that it has to be said.
helenS · 36-40, F
The behavior you criticize reminds me of some old pubs where the same aging crowd have been gathering for >3 decades, and any new person who enters the pub for the first time is met with distrust and a raised eyebrow.
Fortunately, SW is an open forum and new people should always be welcomed heartily, and they should be offered a tulip. 🌷
cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
But we have to break them in, give them the old Similar Worlds welcome. If we are only nice to the Newbies they probably won’t trust us because it will be so much out of character for us. 😂
Magenta · F
Thank you for this Andrew! I am one who is sick of those type accusations, on a daily basis here. "Judged, bullied and told they are fake." Exactly.
whowasthatmaskedman · 70-79, M
"New Users" are all very well.. But frankly "admin" really needs to do some work to clear out some of the time wasters who have no real opinions, but seek attention through insult and negativity with no purpose..
I understand that requires some actual editorial judgement. But frankly I believe it is worth it to get rid of the worst offenders.. It is certainly why you have lost some genuine members here..😷
SW-User
Are Admins truly believing that proxies are no longer used??

As SW Admins, we can see and confirm that the vast Majority of these "New Users" are indeed real, unique individuals.
(We can tell by the referring sources they come from, their IP/Device info, etc...)
@SW-User I’ve met some amazing people that had very fake photos for whatever reason. It’s what made them comfortable… but it’s their thoughts and words that captivated me. The rest is irrelevant.
SW-User
@JustGoneNow prior to this cartoon version of my eye, no other profile pic I have used was of me personally. I don't care what picture anybody uses. I prefer they have some picture. This was my last previous ...
@SW-User yeah and I feel like my words are pretty impactful at times. I’m not sure anything else is needed in this kind of format.
Classified · M
We can tell by the referring sources they come from, their IP/Device info, etc...
Do you use this when you award the "NEW" tag?
@Classified Good question... I'm wondering how that works, too...
Classified · M
@HootyTheNightOwl It hasn't gone beyond wondering yet. 😅
SW-User
I don't have a problem with new users or even alt accounts as long as they are at least funny
SW-User
@JustGoneNow true 😂
@SW-User ily 🖤🤗
SW-User
@JustGoneNow love you too my friend ❤️ 🤗
Occasionally someone turns up here with a sexual fetish request, and I know the app itself is listed as “teen”. So that is creepy to me, and in that instance I’ve been less than welcoming. But it’s easy enough to just block.
@JustGoneNow There’s one new person who’s been nasty to many people here, I finally went to report him, and the direction under "harassing someone else" says to block the person. I intended to do that, but that doesn’t stop them. And suggesting blocks when they’re not unlimited seems potentially problematic.
DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
Well, I don't know what the reason why a certain new user was banned. Yet I did have to comment when the banned icon was shown on a new user just yesterday.

Something must have caused them to be banned. I just don't know what. 🤷🏻‍♂️

I know you don't ban on the first offense. Yet they are a new user.
You can't ever please everyone.
SW-User
Thank you for the info Andrew heads up and repeating the SW rules and regulations. I will be as helpful as I can to keep this place running smoothly
deepblacknothingness · 56-60, M
Agreed it's best to assume positive intent with all until proven otherwise. Everyone deserves to be treated and spoken to with respect.
Star1 · F
I agree there are a lot of people on here who look down their noses at others with different interests or opinions.
Great post, lets hope the bullies take note.
Jonjdw · 51-55, M
I hope we all listen to this. I think we should all want many good people on this site. Even if some are strange.
😂
aw C'Mon!
You KNOW half of them are avatars of old users trying to get "in" again.

I get some of them are genuine , and we see them. But we cant dismiss the obvious fakes - some dont even try to hide it 😂

Edit: and I've seen quite a few posts where new users have been welcomed by many possitive replies.

Dont dis us out coz we know our community and want to keep it one .

We had, and hope to keep the quality of the community we have here on your site. Its unique .

And we make it unique.

Dont dismiss the fact that it us who make this place what it is.

I get numbers count to you.

But its quality that count to us.
💜
bookerdana · M
@OogieBoogie OH,they'd know something like that,right???

🤔 So, no catfishing the new people?
SW-User
A heads up next time
@SW-User Lmao... a heads up on getting new members??? That's a daily event...
Hello I’m new and im not fake
SumKindaMunster · 51-55, M
@Mimi9loves2him Welcome! Let me know if you need any pointers or have questions.
Viper · M
Hey, it wasn't me! (This time)...
@Viper hush
Carissimi · F
I have had interactions with two new users recently on my posts and comments, and both were contrary and argumentative. I know two does not mean all new users are like this, but it makes me want to avoid them.
helenS · 36-40, F
@Carissimi I welcomed some new users and I got nice private messages from them.
Carissimi · F
Like I said on your post, I hadn’t seen any, then two popped up. They were annoying. I know I blocked one. @helenS
i see a lot of underage profiles with dumbass posts but i leave those idiots alone
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@faithfulhusband The youngest I see are 18-21. I believe there's only an option to stop them from contacting you
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@PiecingBabyFaceTogether I have under 18 blocked but I see their posts in the feed and j have noticed a lot of new underage accounts posting the same kind of crisis questions in the last few weeks.
GeorgeTBH · 31-35, M
can i be new 🤣
GeorgeTBH · 31-35, M
@HootyTheNightOwl but i showered a little bit ago
@GeorgeTBH Seems like it wasn't set cold enough - or it wore off already...
GeorgeTBH · 31-35, M
@HootyTheNightOwl wore off lol 🤣
JohnnySpot · 56-60, M
What does this mean? You're admitting new users are fakes?
helenS · 36-40, F
@JohnnySpot No, on the contrary: some users think newbies can only be fake profiles. What the admin says is that the assumption that new user are not just alt accounts is based on good evidence.
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
There are lots of accounts that are catfish. I have found so many people here using stolen pictures.
@iamonfire696 it’s really bad when they are using a real person’s likeness and face. I’d almost rather they use a model off of Google photos. We all know that’s fake and whatever… but the other is a real regular person. I mean, I heavily filter my photos but I’m an aging 47 year old has been rocker that has suffered anorexia much of my life. Since I’m not trying to start a romantic relationship… I feel like I’m allowed that vanity. 🤷‍♀️
@iamonfire696 and thank you for everything you do on Stray’s protect kids thread. You guys are amazing.
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@JustGoneNow I don’t think it’s right when accounts use other peoples photos. I caught an account here posting pictures and content right from an Instagram account. This person was asking members here for money too.

I found the IG account and messaged this lady and she didn’t have an account here.

Filters are one thing for an adult, girls my sons age use them and he’s 15. Makes me sad that they feel they need to do that.

You’re beautiful 💖
JohnnySpot · 56-60, M
I was told that I would be shown wonderful things.
I haven't interacted with the newbs. Dont blame me.
GeorgeTBH · 31-35, M
I will read this after 🤔 maybe
GeorgeTBH · 31-35, M
new people eh 🤔

 
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