Ugh, I know. Mine “about me” is lengthy, so I can understand if someone doesnt want to read the whole thing. Still, at least look. It can give you a really good idea of who someone is and what they seek.

Nope!

My instant message that pops up before they ever send me a DM says, "Hey! You may want to read my "About Me" before hitting send. It may save us time and effort."

Still nope.

Very nicely done "about me"

They do not

They don’t even read the message introduction when it’s right there

Nobody reads those, just the profile pic, first page of forums, posts.

No, of course not. They look at the avi or read a few posts, then go from there…