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What’s the point of having an inbox 📥 if you can’t check your messages?,thats how you make friends on here!
PerfectIllusion · 46-50, F
I wouldn't take it personal. I'm the worst about checking and responding to DMs here especially if we've never exchanged comments on a post before.
Starcrossed · 41-45, F
Too many people have abused the DMs with creepoid stuff for several people here. Best to get to know someone in public comments and posts first these days.
Funlov · M
@Starcrossed and I’m not claiming to be an angel because I’m not but there’s a line and it’s pretty clear right in the sand
Starcrossed · 41-45, F
@Funlov lol that line is damn near invisible and nonexistent for some people.
Funlov · M
@Starcrossed but here’s the thing we were all taught that line from my moms in our dad’s and as adults we should see it some stuff should be left if that lady or that man wants to go that far go to p.m. is all I’m saying
We don't owe every single message an answer. We have real lives and our own personal preferences about who we choose to talk to.

I prefer to get to know people out here before moving to inbox in order to keep the creeps out. So I won't and don't open every message I get - and less so when the intro implies any reference to dick or even a dick pic.
Funlov · M
@HootyTheNightOwl that’s one way of looking at it
@Funlov Most folk don't like it - but I was here in the time before inbox pics were automatically blurred... and I got my fair share of dicks of the literal and metaphorical variety.
Funlov · M
@HootyTheNightOwl yes, I get where you’re coming from I understand
Funlov · M
See here is one thing that is not put on here I get where you’re coming from but you know how many times I open my inbox up and there’s some big set of saggy tits. It’s the same but I get where you’re coming from but nothing worse than seeing a big set of saggy tits I didn’t ask for.
Funlov · M
Funlov · M
@HootyTheNightOwl your a quick one aren’t you? I don’t think I’d like to get on your bad side I like that I’m same way
Funlov · M
@HootyTheNightOwl I’ll call sheep, a sheep and a wolf a wolf every day all day block me that just makes me laugh and reality means you can’t handle it. Can’t take the conversation but don’t send me your big saggy tits.
I didn’t ask for an inbox lol I’m here to just post my thoughts not make friends
deadteddy · 26-30, F
This is not a meeting new people website. It happens but the main purpose is sharing experiences and asking questions. Once people get to know you through your posts then you may make some friends along the way. There are other apps for that if that’s your goal.
Funlov · M
@deadteddy you’re wrong you’re saying what you think this app is for you’re wrong this is this app is for many things whatever somebody wants to make it for so you’ll look outside the box and just saying if you’re gonna go outside the box there’s still gotta be a line in the sand but you’re definitely wrong. That’s your way of thinking that’s how you look at this app that’s not what this app is that’s what anybody wants it to be.
deadteddy · 26-30, F
@Funlov Yeah , I forgot about the pervs that message each other without any previous interaction about their pervy things. My bad
Funlov · M
@deadteddy all good this is what it’s about conversation you never have to apologize mostly to me or to anybody else you’re allowed to voice your opinion that’s what makes us who we are. Thank you.
Magenta · F
People use this site however THEY choose to and not by others dictating to them. Some do NOT want to chit chat pm's.
Magenta · F
@Funlov Many reasons I think. I can not answer for anyone but myself.

I'm not fond of pm's because they are far too time consuming and I am not here to get "close". I enjoy expressing and sharing on posts or my private albums versus being stuck in an inbox.
Funlov · M
@Magenta see but you were able to answer. I understand that thank you.
Magenta · F
@Funlov You're welcome.
KelXtraAF · 31-35, F
Most of us just check it and don’t open the messages. If the message is interesting/nice/whatever criteria is being used to judge we open. If it is boring or annoying we just leave it or delete it. At least that’s what I would do.
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
I can't speak for everyone on SW but I have a protocol for DMs.

First, you have to be active in the forums. Why would I be interested in talking directly with you if I know nothing about you from the group forums??

Second, you and I must have at least seen each other in the forums, maybe even have commented on one another's posts or something.

And lastly, if you DM me and start hinting toward anything sexual before we have established a connective rapport, your message is definitely gonna be ignored.
Fluffybull · F
@DearAmbellina2113 Yep, that's pretty much what I do. I immediately ignore any "hi, how are you?" messages from someone I've never had any communication with on posts 😟
SW-User
Well but some people don't want to make friends.
Funlov · M
@SW-User why do you think that?
SW-User
@Funlov why should there be a reason? Maybe they're Okey as they are
Funlov · M
@SW-User ok
SW-User
They're checking their messages....just not yours. Move on.
Funlov · M
@SW-User that’s what smart people do for sure they don’t message you back why would you bother again right
SW-User
Hell, that reminds me, I have two in my inbox I haven't opened. LOL, 🤔
Funlov · M
@SW-User I don’t get a lot. I think I’m a little dry straightforward but that’s just me knocking apologize for it. I’m not rude. I’m just straight forward.
SW-User
Responding is up to one’s discretion
It’s never been a TOS requirement
Daddyofboys · 36-40, M
In your case, probably don’t know if they are talking to a 14 yo boy or 26 yo man, Trevor or Tyler
She is ignoring you
Funlov · M
It’s fucked right
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Lilnonames · F
Not on here its not its by communicating on post and replies and making posts
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Funlov · M
@PerfectionOfTheHeart I agree I wouldn’t put too much thought in there. Anything on here until I got to know somebody that’s just the way it is that’s life.
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