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Blocked ..lol

A new variation on blocking, or perhaps not. Perfectly civilised chat at 9.00 this morning, said goodbye and went to a Zoom call, came back to say hello, blocked!!! I know it goes with the territory here, but seriously? I can't help feeling quite pissed off lol... if you happen to see this, the blocker, I mean, grow up. Just tell me to piss off but blocking is so absurd
OogieBoogie · F Best Comment
I've had someone today ask me a question, and before I could answer ....I was blocked 🤷
@Lilnonames this place is just crazy at times.
I also think some people spend too much time here ....(not that I can talk , but😏).

I mean , if one has to gossip online, surely one needs to reconsider ones priorities 😂
ArishMell · 70-79, M
@OogieBoogie I've just had the same happen to me,and I was only poking gentle fun at an unwitting self-contradiction in a news headline quote by the OP - not commenting on the subject of the news at all.
@ArishMell ah...some people are.vrry sensitive here ....well I mean we can all be a little sensitive if you touch on a sensitive spot .

But that seems over the top .

ArishMell · 70-79, M
Some will block you if you don't share their opinions or change yours to agree with theirs.

If they are so frightened to be questioned, disbelieved or opposed, why do they use public discussion-groups in the first place?

I am not sure but the one who blocked you might not read your post anyway, because I think the barrier works both ways.

What annoys and upsets me more is that SimilarWorlds creates an automatic message whose clumsy text implies the victim of a block is the guilty one even when innocent - rather like one of the signs of coercive and controlling behaviour.

The last who blocked me, a few days ago, was some woman who sent an unsolicited PM, and she blocked me because I had made clear, but politely, that I do not share her predilection revealed by her "Forums" [[i]sic[/i]] to be cruel to her children. Next I knew I was "... you are not allowed to contact this person" as if it were [i]me[/i] advocating domestic abuse!

Also, if you block and try to report someone for genuinely bad behaviour you are faced with a database-like menu of reasons, yet your reason might match none of them; and again, the block message will say [i]you [/i]are not allowed to contact the miscreant!

I have blocked only about three people I think, all for bad conduct [i]not[/i] their opinions - but in one case the moderators even stood up for the wrong-doer.

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That skewed version of guilt is not confined to SW. I used to contribute to "Answers", a Wikipedia off-shoot, with a large Maths and Science section. When I criticised two people hell-bent on making it very difficult to learn how to convert Imperial to Metric measures, the moderators reprimanded [i]me[/i] and did nothing to stop these saboteurs! (I think the questions were from American school-children's homework, and such as, "How many km in 40 miles" or "Kg in 20 pounds".)
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@TheEmperor the religious posts are prolly the most notorious for this type of thing.

Or rather , religious bible quoters that lack philosophy or their opposing Bible bashers who lack spiritually of any kind .

These two types of extremist make religion and atheism a bad thing .
When in fact those of us who get on with life, and use our belief as a guide rather than a thrashing stick ....seem to get along jist fine and can have logical debates 🤷l😂
ArishMell · 70-79, M
@OogieBoogie I agree. They just like to be thought the fount of all wisdom - or just like to pick a fight!

Your phrase "Bible bashers" made me smile because I know exactly what you mean, but hard-line Christians who try to impose their beliefs on others are often called "Bible-thumpers"!

I do wonder if this site makes things worse by encouraging totally binary division of the world's religious views into "Christianity" and "Atheism"; and a quaternary political split into America's only two Parties, and vague Far-Left and Far-Right. As if no other faiths, administrative parties or systems; no doubt, analysis, questioning or conceding; can possibly exist.
This is the way I look at it: if someone would block you so trivially, you don't want them in your life anyway. They've done you a favor.
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@ElwoodBlues I completely agree but still irritating! Oh, well, onwards and upwards! Ie... get off this site as fast and possible and stay in the rral world.
@ElwoodBlues I heard you are a bigoted troll.
@AtticEscapee Well then, what are you waiting for??
CestManan · 46-50, F
this is a really bad site about people blocking. Worse than anything I seen before.
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@CestManan blocked and reported
Sometimes i would like more people to block me so I dont have to read their rude and snarky comments
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smiler2012 · 56-60
@TheEmperor does not matter you are missing my point
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SW-User
Hey, I hate to be the one to tell you this, but nobody here cares
BackyardShaman · 61-69, M
@SW-User new
I just wish SW gave more free blocks 🚫 😆
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
This is the only place where you can say or do [i]one thing[/i] that a person disagrees with--even someone allegedly a friend--and you get blocked. That's a problem, because my friendship has value and I take issue with someone without the maturity to resolve minor conflicts.

It shows you how fake people here can be.

It's like half the people here are Borderlines.
@uncalled4 You have a point .
Being able to resolve conflict is an important part of friendship.
And if a friend can't tell you their truth or be honest with one another ....then is it a friendship at all ?
likesnatural · 70-79, M
People have to be really offensive for me to,block them. I have been blocked by some that I don't know why. Such is life on SW.
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smiler2012 · 56-60
@SW-User some people on here would make a pyschiatric nightmare the way there mind must work and how they think the baffle common sense
Blondily · F
Just another day on SW!
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@TheEmperor [i]The Atlantic[/i] isn't what it once was.
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Some fella keeps on blocking me then unblocking me, I just pretend I didn't notice.... He must be bored
@SW-User For the longest time I didn’t block people back, but then I encountered someone like the person you describe. He kept popping up with snarky comments after I thought he’d blocked me. I finally resolved things by blocking [b]him[/b]. Now if someone blocks me and I don’t want to risk them changing their mind, I’ll block back.
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@bijouxbroussard tbh, I don't understand their behaviour, when I block they stay blocked
@SW-User Same for me. The blocking and unblocking seems like game-playing.
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
They won’t see it though cause they blocked you……

 
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