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hey what's up....how r u doing....jus I'd say hey and see how you're doing??..... how do you find this website... I'm so bored right now just got off work about 4 hours ago wide awake you cannot sleep....ugh

beth2020 · 18-21, F
I think sometimes they are not who they say they are. sometimes I bet some have a secret fantasy to talk to younger girls and some just get caught by a GF or BF and block you so you can't send em messages and them get in trouble.
LondonCowboy · 51-55, M
Sounds true for some but not all 🌹@beth2020
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girlunplugged · 18-21, F
It happened to me too. No idea why. Like you, upsetting at first but then I just told myself that this place is not really friends just passing acquaintances.
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Pretzel · 70-79, M
@girlunplugged yeah I was crushed the first time it happened - still don't like it all that much. in the final analysis I think they probably did me a favor
Even worse when they don't block you but just completely ignore you. You see there online but they never reply
But I definitely feel ya gal
Nighttalker · 56-60, M
@LollyPOPblue if that happens, then they weren’t who they were claiming to be in the first place. They probably thought you were close to figuring that out.
@LollyPOPblue no one on here replies hardly anymore anyway
IWasCallingYaLarry · 31-35, M
@LollyPOPblue I have a best friend on here who was gone for a while, then she came back and we were catching up and talking for a while almost like she never left for a while. And now for over a week, for whatever reason she's been ignoring me :( . Idk why.
MrBrownstone · 46-50, M
Happened to me in real life. But it shows more about them then you.
SW-User
Maybe they realize that you're underage and since a lot of your groups are adult they don't want to take a chance on going to prison.
Or maybe they felt that a teenage girl wouldn't join so many weird fetish groups and think that you're actually an adult male 🤔...

Considering that you're only adding the youngest girls to your circle I'm thinking that the last thing is correct..
I consider it a good thing. I don't have time for people with such intense mood swings.
ElsaKaren · F
Sometimes i think their S.O. finds their secret account then creates havoc on it, by blocking their friends in it.
chrisCA · M
@ElsaKaren That person is not very bright for allowing anyone to access their account.
Subsumedpat · 36-40, M
@ElsaKaren Oh my that would be terrible. I don't tell anyone about my account.
MissyChrissy · 18-21, F
I understand you completely
ozgirl512 · 31-35, F
@MissyChrissy it happens and the reasons are hidden ...
Hgingat · 18-21, F
I think if people block you they’re not really your friend so I never take it to heart.
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Jessikah56 · 22-25, F
I think I know who you're talking about and they just did the exact same thing to me...
Jessikah56 · 22-25, F
@stacywinters Yes! It was really strange... I'm thinking fake =/
@Jessikah56 Same... we literally stayed up talking 'til 2AM one time, then one morning she just stopped replying to me and then blocked me a few days later. Like wtf?
wunderluv · 51-55, M
@stacywinters that's harsh to do to someone.. I've had it happen.
Some people have really challenged or non-existent people skills
ElsaKaren · F
It is odd how that happens, I have had that also over the years. Maybe a SO catches them on here and does it? Who knows.
LondonCowboy · 51-55, M
@ElsaKaren It’s so strange when they just disappear 😞
Allelse · 36-40, M
You never know, maybe that's what they enjoy. They like making friends online only to block them, then sneak on another account and see their reaction. See if they make a post about how hurt they are.
SW-User
One more time I’m reassured that spending nights on “friends” here..especially here , is a big waste of time. Thankfully , i only get blocked here by enemies so no hurt feelings after that. Hugs
LondonCowboy · 51-55, M
@SW-User Let your enemies take themselves out with the trash 🗑
@SW-User absolutely true haha
easyvicky · 31-35, F
All kinds make up the world. Just be thankful it happened then, before you invested more into the friendship.
JoeyFoxx · 56-60, M
Ya never know what triggers people.

Don’t read into it. It was likely not about you, but about the person who blocked you.
AllycatAD · 26-30
I really don't care if you remove this or not,, your hounding me about my hormonal disorder creeped me out like you're gathering info to Role play it or something. A few years back when on Facebook, you went by Jessica Summers, same girl, *different pose) same location, same hobbies. I didn't like being stalked by you, maybe that's why some might of blocked you, I choose just to ignore you.
BigGuy2 · 31-35, M
@AllycatAD it may be an idea to give people on here a WARNING about what she's done in the past
Dez580 · 61-69, M
Why can't people on here simply unfriend someone, then ignore any future mesages. Sadly the trend to to block first and without even the courtesy of saying so in a simpple message. Only exception , I do block obvious fakes, men pretending to women yet write in an aggresive masculine manner. We are never to agree on everything, the differences need to be celebrated rather than condemned.
BigGuy2 · 31-35, M
@Dez580 ... what gets me is that you have people that leave an offensive message, THEN block you, the COWARDS
Dez580 · 61-69, M
@BigGuy2 especially when such messages are sent to young ladies, well ladies of any age for that matter
BigGuy2 · 31-35, M
@Dez580 ... being honest, a few women have done that to me, but I don’t give them the satisfaction of me blocking 1st
Ginny2002 · 22-25, F
Happened to me. No reason.
Fa8393 · 41-45, M
Sw is a place we all escape to wither we accept this or not and there are alot of people that come on here that are not always very honest with who they are . Then there are some that just don't know how to express their own feelings and when they are called out they get upset .
People on here block for tons of reasons
Queendragonfly · 31-35, F
Maybe don't have "friends forever" expectations on strangers who you think you know because they only show you the sides they choose to show. You don't actually know anyone on here.

I myself block strangers when something happens, they say something that I can't compromise on. Something that I don't want to engage with or feel comfortable being friends with after hearing. Or they have acted a way that goes completely against my standard in the people I wanna engage with.

Whatever it is, I assure you, she had her right and her reasons and it doesn't make her fake, she set a boundary, however you not respecting it, and blaming her like this, makes it clear to her why she had to block you in the first place. You become the fake one. Who can't respect a no.
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Torpedocat99 · 46-50, MVIP
So we have a friend in common if you would like to chat and may very well have similar interests. PM me if you like.😘 And getting blocked is rough when you have chatted with a person you think you have things in common with.
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Spidergrrr · 26-30, M
Yeah.But what hurts the most when the person you love the most blocks you.And tells you they hate you.After things fall apart after almost five years of dating.That and plus what happened has never made me feel so low and heartbroken
Bklynbadboy12 · 31-35, M
I totally agree with you. That's happened to me before but people on here are very sensitive. They'll block you just cause you don't agree with them
JoeyFoxx · 56-60, M
Ever considered the possibility that perhaps your friend thought you were getting too close?
ozgirl512 · 31-35, F
People can be funny at times...I wouldn't lose too much sleep over it, all part of life
Take being blocked as as a compliment - it means you had a strong effect on the person to care enough to be a big baby and block you.
Nighttalker · 56-60, M
People aren’t always who they say they are Stacy.
revenant · F
Some people are not very stable
ozgirl512 · 31-35, F
It happens.. Look at it this way, it saved you wasting more time on them ;)
I know that feeling.
Tryingtomoveforward · 36-40, M
It horrible. I know it as well just like you, conversation going well then with no warning blocked.
bluemachine · 31-35, M
Ive had it happen to
Strongtea · 22-25, M
Yeah, it does hurt.
southbeachguy · 46-50, M
I think it is cowardly, I let anyone have a say with me that wants to yell at me. Just ignore the message, but to block them is chicken S. I have never blocked anyone but spam in my history of online chats for 25 years.
AngelKrish · 26-30, M
Same here! People here don't stay that's sad and people here are not real....they lie alot..
Few are real too
SW-User
Don't let it get to you. Though I don't want to dismiss your feelings.
It's about them, maybe they just need to disconnect. Happens a lot online... chatting can be addictive.
I am sorry. Those times are very confusing and frustrating. As long as you know what the reason for the blocking is, it's at least a comfort to know. Those that just happen out of nowhere or suddenly causes even more pain.
@froggtongue Maybe you didn't show them enough pity, or whatever it was they were looking for. They must have been looking for something, otherwise they wouldn't have posted anything about it.

But thanks for your generous offer to help them.
chuck7882 · 61-69, M
Stay here long enough and you'll realize getting blocked here is a badge of honor
coolnudist · 70-79, M
I feel for you, it has happened to me the same way.

I was talking with this person and in the middle of conversation bam there it was block.

I said oh well guess they didn't want to talk any more, they could have just said bye going to bed it's late. But no they blocked me!
samueltyler2 · 80-89, M
it happens. Unfortunately, there is no way to know who or why. The shame is tht if you offended someone, there is no way to say you are sorry.
Zeusdelight · 61-69, M
That has happened to me and it was upsetting, but then I thought lots of other people on here. Let's see who else I can meet.
shrug and move on.
Tukudo · 41-45, M
This is a platform to get habitual to get upset and move ahead taking life not serious but live joyfully full of fun💃😎..
DocHands · 51-55, M
Hi, I am very new here. This sounds like it happens a lot. Try not to take it personally. I am sorry it hurt your feelings.
Driver2 · M
Yes it happened to me here too. But best to forget because it would be worse if it went on longer.
Rhodesianman · 56-60, M
Understandable it happens dont let it worry you .If they block you with no explanation their not worth wasting your time on just move on .

 
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