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in10RjFox · M
to find something serious on this site.
something is a wrong choice of word with total disregard to souls that dwell here.

We see too many posts like this coming from honey trap / scammers who use images of strangers grabbed from social media accounts. So if you are genuine you need to stay put and interact with people by making connections. There are many other scammers n spammers too who will message you with all kinds of nonsense. You need to sail out of the shallow area to reach the mid-sea with select people and you will then know how to find the gems.

not just casual or silly conversations
Which means you have to start serious conversations through your posts and select people based on how they respond to your post and connect with them from there through PMs. So look around to see how people POST and then make your posts with a difference and have regard to those who respond seriously.

f there are ways to make my profile more visible
Yes. When you post you can select a category / mood which will connect you with those who have subscribed for the topic. But it would take time.

to people with the same intentions.
Make your intentions clear through your posts and the way you write/ communicate. People with good intentions will come by on their own.
Elisbch · M
@in10RjFox

I applied all your tips and I found my match made in heaven!..LOL 🤣😄
(Only drawback is I need to keep patch kits handy!..LOL)



in10RjFox · M
@Elisbch so you have really found Something 😀😀

I wouldn’t say it’s out of the realm of possibility but it’s definitely a long shot. Words on your profile, no matter how wholesome, still won’t replace being patient and taking the time to build genuine connections but even then, this isn’t a dating site.
Stellad860 · 31-35, FNew
@OlderSometimesWiser I think so thank you
exexec · 70-79, C
Yes, it happens. Sometimes it is difficult to find topics to discuss. For example, I refuse to discuss religion and politics. Genealogy, nature, some sports, family...? I'm all in for discussion.
Jayciedubb · 56-60, M
Dianna Ross once said, "You Can't Hurry Love." It's true. Same goes with any kind of quality relationship. Be patient and keep trying. ...and beware!
Stellad860 · 31-35, FNew
@Jayciedubb thank you
Ryanoliver2011 · 31-35, M
I met my exfiance on this site and had 5 good years with her so yes it’s definitely possible to find love here
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Stellad860 · 31-35, FNew
@SomeMichGuy thank you 😊
@Stellad860 No problem. Best to be clear ASAP.

This will also weed out the non-readers.
DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
For women I suggest looking at others profiles rather than over production on their own. Please keep in mind I don't mean not putting anything on your about me or photo albums. Just don't over do it.

Those that have about me's and photo albums that are not adult rated is what you should be looking at. Skip anything that doesn't have anything. They really are not looking at all.
Strict4u · 56-60, M
Well you are definitely very beautiful and I don’t know if you will find him here but good luck to you
Stellad860 · 31-35, FNew
@Strict4u thank you 😊
ChipmunkErnie · 70-79, M
I'd think it is possible, but probably limited to a small selection of the people here. A lot depends on what you consider serious, what you want to talk about.
Nick1 · 61-69, M
It is possible to make genuine connections, if you are ready to invest time and efforts it takes to build.
Stellad860 · 31-35, FNew
@Nick1 thanks dear I can tell
Peter1985 · 36-40, M
Peter1985 · 36-40, M
@Stellad860 u remind me of my sister
Stellad860 · 31-35, FNew
@Peter1985 oh really how
Peter1985 · 36-40, M
@Stellad860 she has that sassy face like u
HumanEarth · F
I dont know about dating wise, but I made some great friends on here
3Dogmatic · 46-50, M
I would suggest just taking time and get to know people. You will find some clowns, weirdos, and strange people, but you will also find some genuinely good people who are not looking to send you wiener pics or stuff like that.

Just my opinion though.
Stellad860 · 31-35, FNew
@3Dogmatic thanks 😊
sylvsn59 · 61-69, M
there are a couple of groups/forums that sound like what you are looking for. not sure how active or realistic they are.
Stellad860 · 31-35, FNew
@sylvsn59 thank you
DailyFlash · 56-60, M
It's not a dating site. I would try one of those.
Court69 · M
Pm me your phone number and we can talk like humans. Lets see where it goes.
JackDaniels · 46-50, M
Welcome and good luck.
Stellad860 · 31-35, FNew
@JackDaniels thank you
You want to eat the banana without peeling it first. Eat the mac n cheese without cooking it. Have a cooked steak without... well, you get it.
I think the silly has to come before the serious, otherwise.. date an army guy I guess.
Yes sir.. right away sir.. thank you sir. ;)
Stellad860 · 31-35, FNew
@JamesBugman thanks anyway
Virgo79 · 61-69, M
I've had to sift through alot of people to find a few😕
Lostlostlost · 51-55, M
Yes of course it is, you have to be patient and try try try again
Welcome...
Spend some time, you'll know
Iwillwait · M
You just did by posting a photo, unfortunately. You're most likely going to be approached several times by creeps.
Stellad860 · 31-35, FNew
@Iwillwait honestly 😓
lauranne · 18-21, F
AnotherWeirdo · 41-45, M
To be fair, many of the best connections arise from a shared appreciation of silly conversations.
JackJames · M
You can but it comes and goes.
Stellad860 · 31-35, FNew
@JackJames lol funny enough games
JackJames · M
@Stellad860 some days we want something serious and then next we could want something funny because it’s even a rough day.
Midlifemale · 61-69, M
So you want a girlfriend ?
Peter1985 · 36-40, M
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
Doubtful. Words are cheap and people hiding behind a computer screen can pretend to be anything they want.

 
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