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Should I give this guy a chance?

I am casually friendly and thoughtful to everyone. Then there was this guy I met on Facebook and chat me. I don't want to sugar coat, so I sent him my real photo without any filter. He told me "you look 30 (old) and stressed". I was shock because he is the only person who told me that. Not to brag, I was praised with my colleagues and friends for looking young for my age.

He calls everyday and I just pick it up like a friend. Then he told me he wants to meet me on Sunday. I think he only wants to see how I look like in personbecause he saw my other photos on Instagram and liked it.

I told not to start anything between us if I am not the one he is looking for. But he is insisting that he feels great with me.

Was it just my pride that I don't want him to think "I lowered my standard because I feel safe with you"?

What should be my expectations on this date?
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ArishMell · 70-79, M
Sounds as if you are better off nowhere near him.

-Rude about your looks even before he knows much about you.

- Says he "feels great with" you when you have not met even once.

- Judges you from other photographs he has found; not ones you sent him.

- Calls you every day.

I don't think he has much respect for you. In fact I'd fear worse, that he is being manipulative. Drop him.