Should I give this guy a chance?

I am casually friendly and thoughtful to everyone. Then there was this guy I met on Facebook and chat me. I don't want to sugar coat, so I sent him my real photo without any filter. He told me "you look 30 (old) and stressed". I was shock because he is the only person who told me that. Not to brag, I was praised with my colleagues and friends for looking young for my age.

He calls everyday and I just pick it up like a friend. Then he told me he wants to meet me on Sunday. I think he only wants to see how I look like in personbecause he saw my other photos on Instagram and liked it.

I told not to start anything between us if I am not the one he is looking for. But he is insisting that he feels great with me.

Was it just my pride that I don't want him to think "I lowered my standard because I feel safe with you"?

What should be my expectations on this date?

Neoerectus · M

Do casual stuff in public for a few dates in different situations... meal, movie, some activity, etc. Have fun in joint activities.

Real intentions can reveal themselves. Never get to intimate too soon.

My observation is intimate situations tend to "set the concrete" - ie limits the true emotional intimacy - if sex comes too soon in a relationship.