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Unfortunately that can be true especially if you’re only communicating online, where “messing up” is easier because you’re not seeing facial expressions nor hearing tone of voice. So feeling a connection and saying the right things can be challenging.
Since it is a gamble, if there’s interest in pursuing any type of relationship it’s probably best to plan for phone calls and video chats. Of course that’s not a guarantee of success but it does increase the chances of a positive outcome.
Since it is a gamble, if there’s interest in pursuing any type of relationship it’s probably best to plan for phone calls and video chats. Of course that’s not a guarantee of success but it does increase the chances of a positive outcome.
DHggmu · 31-35, M
@OlderSometimesWiser Yes exactly this. Though I’m speaking about online “friendships” but the lack of emotion in online chat can make it very difficult, and alot easier to be misunderstood.
WillaKissing · 56-60, M
@OlderSometimesWiser May I add that if you truly like/respect a person online and have a misunderstanding of what they said or perceived the message negatively instead of blocking and deleting them. A mature person would communicate their possible misunderstanding and ask for a clarification/explanation instead of jumping to the judgmental block and delete.
Magenta · F
@WillaKissing Indeed. Emotional maturity seems so rare.
@WillaKissing Agreed but unfortunately “mature” is not a given.
WillaKissing · 56-60, M
@Magenta @OlderSometimesWiser You are both right! I have no problem telling ladies they are right! 🤗