If you ask me “would you like to chat” and i answer “nope” “No thank you” or “Not interested”. That should be the end don’t ask me why because 9 times out of ten i just do not feel like having a private conversation at the moment.
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@twistedrope Most of the time its a no thank you just because i don’t want to come off rude. But because some people don’t take no for an answer Ive stopped caring as much.
@twistedrope Yes sometimes i just do not feel like talking to these people ever. Which is my right because I don’t really owe anyone a conversation, or a reason as to why I don’t want to talk to/with them.
@littlelia So, my point is that when I ask someone for the first time if they want to talk and they say "no", that means I will not talk to them ever. There is no in between, I am moving onto one of the other 7 billion people. That's not empowering or anything, it's just a sad fact.
Fixation, rudeness or right to not speak and all that, the result of just breaking that connection permanently, it remains the same.
@twistedrope you’re inserting yourself but im not at all talking about you, I’m talking about the men who DON’T take no for an answer. Which was very obvious in my opinion, but like i said we all work a see things differently.
@twistedrope well if you’re sad about a “lost connection” with someone, but they never connected with you that’s more a personal issue. I for one won’t be changing a thing about it.
@twistedrope No need to apologize you’re fine, I’m just saying if a person doesn’t want to talk to you thats not something to be sad over, 8 billion people on the planet. No one is that special.