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If you ask me “would you like to chat” and i answer “nope” “No thank you” or “Not interested”. That should be the end don’t ask me why because 9 times out of ten i just do not feel like having a private conversation at the moment.

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sargam · 36-40, F

Totally relate to this situation

littlelia · 18-21, F

@sargam right? And It’s worse when im trying my hardest not to be mean but they just wont take the hint, so then i just have to say it straight.

sargam · 36-40, F

@littlelia Been there done that since over 20 years now lol.

Trust me you will get used to it and feel less bad.

travelguy01 · 41-45, M

Because your name is “Little Lia” so they all think you’re lying. You should change it to “Little Troof Tella”

littlelia · 18-21, F

@travelguy01 okay i have to admit i chuckled at this.

twistedrope · 26-30, M

I find it very rare for a person to say "Not at this moment." which I would talk later. "Nope" pretty much cuts off all future communication by me.

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littlelia · 18-21, F

@twistedrope well if you’re sad about a “lost connection” with someone, but they never connected with you that’s more a personal issue. I for one won’t be changing a thing about it.

twistedrope · 26-30, M

@littlelia It's my experience and feelings on the matter. Sorry it wasn't helpful to you.

littlelia · 18-21, F

@twistedrope No need to apologize you’re fine, I’m just saying if a person doesn’t want to talk to you thats not something to be sad over, 8 billion people on the planet. No one is that special.

OldGrandDad · M

You hit the nail on the head with ...
[quote]Which is my right because I don’t really owe anyone a conversation, or a reason as to why I don’t want to talk to/with them.[/quote]
You owe nothing. You have no obligation.