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Why do the most disgusting, rude bullies of SW always have a group of supporters?

I pretty much like everyone and want to laugh and listen to your stories and comments. I just do. I like people.

But there’s people here that you never have to do a thing to except extend kindness and they hate you. They treat you like crap until you speak up for yourself then they attack with the lamest, weakest, low dirty bullshit they can.

(Yeah let’s insult someone’s dead parents 😆)

Yet there’s always people following them around kissing their ass. Laughing at their mean bullshit.

This isn’t that serious on a one on one level, I’m used to bullies. But these people get mass approval. Look at our country… it’s run by these assholes.

When are we gonna stand up?

Why is there nothing that can be done? Except turn your head and avoid their projectile misery?

And sure, chaos, evil I get it, but why is it okay for them to hurt and oppress people? Why do we let them?
SW-User
The person that bullies you can be a saint with someone else. People here choose who to be aholes with and who to be buddies with. I don’t know what makes a person hate on someone without a legitimate reason. I guess they see something about us that makes them envious and aggressive. I don’t care anymore. If they don’t like you then they can get lost. You can’t change people no matter how nice you try to be with them. They are just filled with hatred and need someone to target with their vile outbursts.
SW-User
@MoonlightLullaby thanks for agreeing
@SW-User Just due to experience, my friend.....
SW-User
It’s not fair but who said people are fair to each other? The problem is they slander us and don’t want to leave us alone . @MoonlightLullaby
Fungirlmmm · 51-55, F
People are mean often. Most of them are probably hurt themselves. I am sorry that happened to you.
Fungirlmmm · 51-55, F
@SW-User I am a worrier. ;)
SW-User
Fungirlmmm · 51-55, F
@SW-User That made me think of a song.
Unfortunately some of the meanest most vindictive people here are among the most popular.
SW-User
@SooperSarah it’s pretty weird 😆 not something you’d expect online when you can be anonymous. It inspires me to be more authentic. To some here it seems a chance to pretend they’re superior. Humans are so strange 😆
JackJames · M
I feel that we hit a space since 2016 where people think we have to be ok with them being rude and bullies. Like this is their personality and if we don’t like it, then we’re the bad ones.
JackJames · M
@SW-User sadly we’re also living in a time where some of the have enough’s have been lead to believe that the have a lot’s can do no wrong. That this is the proper way things should be done. I find it interesting that specific ideologies in their minds are the best way to do things, and that any other should be fought against.
When BLM happened, so many people would put down the whole movement. Some times they were protecting people. Sometimes they weren’t. But when Kyle Rittenhouse killed those people, it was self defence. He said he was there to protect the buildings. Ok, but where were you when police were firing rubber bullets into crowds and real bullets at unarmed people.
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@JackJames Yup. Most people, if they can afford their iced lattes and name brand shoes will fight for the system in place.

Interesting though, I worked and grew close with a Mexican man years ago who worshiped the American way of life. He was thrilled to come to work and earn a paycheck. Even though it didn’t exactly suffice, it was better than what he grew up with.

So much of our perspective is skewed too. I’m as spoiled as any other American. But i could never get him to understand how to have fun. Like miss a day of work, smoke some weed and feel the sunshine. This lifestyle is a cage. Like with my ex husband, work always came first. It was his identity.

I believe we’ve been psychologically manipulated with great ease by our powerful ones. Consumerism and false securities are our motivations which just isn’t human. We’re animals. We beget violence yet shun it simultaneously. It’s confusing and everyone has loyalty to the winning team.

I’d rather be around a bunch of losers or dead, than succumb to the awful feeling of selling my soul for profit.

I was privileged enough to get a break from literally everything. It opened up my eyes so wide. I took it all in. And now I can’t stand for this crap anymore. I can’t. I won’t.
JackJames · M
@SW-User it’s true. There are a lot of Filipino workers here who make less than me and send most of it home. They work so many hours you can see the tiredness in their face.
So many people from outside N. America look at us like life is amazing. And to them it is because it was way worse. However, it’s sad when the base life in N. America is better than what they had and that so many people here are ok with them living that life and ok with others doing stuff for them that they would never want to do.
Teslin · M
There definitely are some toxic people on SW. I'm with you, I am here for some fun.
Ignore them and scroll on by. If it is real bad, block them.
I am so sorry that this happens !!
Torsten · 36-40, M
give em back what they dish out.
I get that isnt for everyone and people like yourself want people to just get along but I think people like you described just come here to put others down in a attempt to feel some power that they dont get in real life.
and if others inject themselves in it also sticking up for them and trying to gang up on you, give em all hell back and not be a walking mat for their egos
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Convivial · 26-30, F
Never quite got past elementary school...
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@Convivial it was amazing when they were kinda harassing me and commenting on everything I wrote. It was like they sent an army of 9 year olds to insult me 😆 and everyone here’s favorite micropenis went into my old posts to find one about my dead dad to comment on 😆

Are we serious? 😆
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Pinkstarburst · 51-55, F
I’m really sorry.

I’ve discovered ignoring them is really best.

Reminding myself that this is all they have in life and how sad and lonely that must be puts things in perspective.

Deleting their words and toxicity and interacting with the ones who matter is what’s most important.
SW-User
@Pinkstarburst You’re right. It’s easy enough to ignore, block and delete on SW, and they probably don’t do much bullying offline. It’s easy on here for them.

Though it bothers me how people happily join what they can clearly see is mean and unjustified. I wish that behavior was as punishable as using their name or sticking up for yourself.

But it’s like you say, these buttheads aren’t going anywhere. When one gets blocked another will take their place 😆
chuck7882 · 61-69, M
I know what you mean.There is a guy here who actually sent me a threatening DM. But he's popular here so the admins did nothing, just told me to block him.
SW-User
@chuck7882 I am thankful for the block feature. I wish real life had one.
Lonelyandyb · 36-40, M
Let’s stand up and fight back!
SW-User
@Lonelyandyb I’m for real I’m sick of it being dealt with so passively.
Lonelyandyb · 36-40, M
@SW-User I’m for real too
Rilyn · 31-35, F
Yeah they kind of gang up. I ve seen it.
SW-User
@Rilyn it’s so weird 😆
CestManan · 46-50, F
Basically just mock your attackers.
Also be careful what info you share on here lest someone tries to use it against you.

Just annoy your haters into blocking you first. More fun that way. Act like a jackass if need be. It works for me 😁
Justenjoyit · 61-69, M
Send them my way 👍
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SW-User
@caccoon girl I can’t see the most people that respond to your posts 😆

We can all be aholes that’s for sure. But certain people here go for blood for no clear reason.

I’ll be real, but a certain taco person might ring some bells… I supported him when he was banned, I was chill and open with him like I am with pretty much everyone, yet he’s been so fkn mean to me. Like attacky. And the shit he posts is more disgusting than anything he’s trying to insult. Same with that voodoodoo queen and her followers. It’s cool if people don’t like me, but I was nothin but nice until they pushed too much. Fuck bullies and fuck the popularity contests and fuck the people that enable that shit by laughing or doing nothing or harassing other users.
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JackJames · M
@SW-User I think you mean the reverse. Most bullies if tested show signs of psychopathy. People will say the same thing about the people they bullied if they go too far and it is true but the way one is treated exacerbates the psychopathy.

 
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