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I "i Am Comfortable Being Anonymous, Let Me Be"

Don't ask about my location, age, work etc...If I want it to be known, I should have posted it.

So DON'T message me asking about these details. Respect my anonymity and I'd do the same.

If you want to know my point of interests, read my posts. I'll gladly read yours too.

4meAndyou · F
There are some people (men, mostly) who have this idea (fantasy?) in their heads that they can actually meet up with you. They want to know your age and if you are in the same country, and where in that country you are located, for that reason, and they want to know what you do for work so that they know if you are out of their league. If all that lines up for their fantasy, then they will ask for your photo.
SW-User
@4meAndyou wow, come to think of it, that pretty accurately describes most of the PM i get here o.o ..
I just never noticed it that way, thank you!
4meAndyou · F
@SW-User I am cynical about it, I know...but most men are using these sites as free dating apps.
1Dogma · F
@4meAndyou hmmnn...catfishing men!
SW-User
Yeah I don’t get why people get so nosey about someone they’ll never even meet
1Dogma · F
@SW-User that's the point. I'd tell every detail in person. Hah!
SW-User
Yes...I hate being asked my age especially. If I wanted it known I'd post it. 😑
SW-User
@Degbeme You're older than me.😉

I'm good.😊
Degbeme · 70-79, M
@SW-User I know.

Good to hear. 🤗
SW-User
@Degbeme 🤗
ABCDEF7 · M
You need not to tell the details. Some people just need it to have an idea about you so they can relate to you.

You can just tell them your country, age range and department you work.
1Dogma · F
@ABCDEF7 people are different. You cannot expect someone to be like you in some ways.
ABCDEF7 · M
@1Dogma Yes, maybe it's easy for you to understand and reply if somebody is saying that she feels alone, but for other people like me, they need to know weather that person is a 13 year old girl or 50 years old lady before they can reply appropriately. There are many things where we need to have an idea about them to relate understand and reply accordingly. For some people it's even difficult to start a healthy conversation before getting that idea. I am not talking about disclosing your personal details like complete address, phone, company name etc. You may have not felt that but in some conversations you will realise the need of that in some way or another.
1Dogma · F
@ABCDEF7 whatever suits you. we all have our own preference.
SW-User
amen, sister
Degbeme · 70-79, M
@SW-User Oh the Mango queen. 😍
1Dogma · F
@Degbeme yep. She's my younger sistah, she just informed me. 🤪
Degbeme · 70-79, M
@1Dogma 😂
SW-User
HEY!! On this site, I got some magical, God-given right to make you tell me anything, somehow. So I get to know where you live, what's your address, how old are you, what state were you born, what is your job, where do you work, how much money do you make, what is your bank account number and password combination, your social security number, your entire ancestry and bloodline heritage back to Adam! Screw that, I need an entire 298 page autobiography of where you've been and all the things you've ever done
SW-User
@1Dogma I'm exaggerating the weirdos here XD
1Dogma · F
@SW-User I know...just being silly with you. 🤭
SW-User
@1Dogma I like you already :3
SW-User
Degbeme · 70-79, M
Not something I ask or ask until I know someone.
Degbeme · 70-79, M
@1Dogma Just don`t rely to them. If they continue, you block.
1Dogma · F
@Degbeme I'll just ignore now and won't post coz someone complained about it. Maybe they're twin brothers. 🥴
Degbeme · 70-79, M
@1Dogma 😂
Sounds reasonable to me
1Dogma · F
@MistyCee I have my reasons
@1Dogma As do I. Cheers!
Cowboybob · M
I don’t ever ask
1Dogma · F
@Cowboybob good.🥴
ArtieKat · M
There's anonymous and there's paranoia........
1Dogma · F
@ArtieKat how does paranoia come into the picture?😳
ArtieKat · M
@1Dogma I agree with @ABCDEF7. Secrecy to the point of being a caricacture of a real person doesn't seem to me to be the basis of any meaningful interactions.

https://www.netdoctor.co.uk/healthy-living/wellbeing/a26778/paranoia/
Hey "yourself" called and you are "full"
1Dogma · F
wHO caRES
1Dogma · F
@MarmeeMarch I don't care too! 🤷‍♀️
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1Dogma · F
@SW-User 🤫
SW-User
🤐@1Dogma
I don’t answer any general questions that I consider invasive, I just pass them by, and I don’t post “selfies”, either. I prefer the anonymity of this site, too.
1Dogma · F
@bijouxbroussard ignore & move on...I'll do it.

 
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