When you loose a good SW friend.
Because a third party told them something about you going all the way back to EP that is just not true and you are blocked without a chance to say so. This third party I don't know threw a crowbar between us two.
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justcallmenameless1 · 36-40, F
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BuzzedLightyear · 61-69
@justcallmenameless1 you still believe
justcallmenameless1 · 36-40, F
@BuzzedLightyear I've given up.
BuzzedLightyear · 61-69
@justcallmenameless1 you're not wired that way
KingofBones1 · 46-50, M
KingofBones1 · 46-50, M
@Gibbon I can definitely understand that and condolences my friend. Although they never passed away in front of my eyes. I've experienced some of that grief losing in many ways someone who was once dear to me witnessing every day their batteries dying and being able to do nothing about it. That's part of what drove me to become the darkness I once did before I went to prison. And although I wasn't in a relationship with other people I have watched perish and pass away. I have watched my brother die in front of me from a drive-by shooting relative pass on from natural causes. And best buddies in the military being decimated cut in half screaming for relief willing to do anything to make it end and those who go quickly one minute they're here the next minute they're spaghetti sauce all over the sand. I've seen a lot of f***** up s*** in my life too. But I still think you are right too in a way. Like that song says this ain't nothing. Cheers brother I don't know about you but after talking about this I need a drink
Ducky · 31-35, F
Doesn’t sound like a good friend to me. I have no idea how bad this something about you could have been for them to just block you (you don’t have to say, of course), but if they’re going to take someone else’s word for it and not even let you have a say, they clearly didn’t value you as a friend that much. I say give them the same treatment and just forget about them. No real loss and life goes on.
thinkingoutloud · F
@Gibbon I just take my life for granted I guess.
For me I have friends, not only that but my wife's family are Zambian and my own family resemble a Mediterranean family- think "my big fat Greek wedding" and you've got the idea 😅
Are there any community groups in your area you can join?
For me I have friends, not only that but my wife's family are Zambian and my own family resemble a Mediterranean family- think "my big fat Greek wedding" and you've got the idea 😅
Are there any community groups in your area you can join?
ThreeLittleBirds · F
That’s what narcissists do and thats how they operate
They steal away friendships, happiness and ideas 💡
But tbf it doesn’t just come down to them … the person who they have now befriended had the opportunity to use their own judgement and sadly if they go to the narc that’s bc perhaps they are comfortable being with them for codependency or flying monkey reasons
It’s a real thing and it has been around since the dawn of time
Best thing to do is to walk your own path until you meet better folk
Take it easy 😘
They steal away friendships, happiness and ideas 💡
But tbf it doesn’t just come down to them … the person who they have now befriended had the opportunity to use their own judgement and sadly if they go to the narc that’s bc perhaps they are comfortable being with them for codependency or flying monkey reasons
It’s a real thing and it has been around since the dawn of time
Best thing to do is to walk your own path until you meet better folk
Take it easy 😘
Gibbon · 70-79, M
@ThreeLittleBirds True Thank you. I have enough wrong with my lonely world I really do need to put more focus on taking care of me. I have enough trouble doing that without this kind of nonsense. I also can't wait for this election to be over and stop dumping my anger about it on here. That's another avenue lost in losing this was thought to be friend.
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