Just finding new friends in this new place. And my boyfriend isn't too pleased

He's scared something bad could happen if I meet strangers in a new, unfamiliar city, as 1 month in is too soon.
Idk, that way, it's always scary to meet new people. Anyone could abduct, kidnap, kill me.
I plan to meet in broad daylight, in public place.
I don't even have money lol.
But idk, maybe he's right.
I mean, NOW I am scared.
Ugh. :(
I just feel so alone here. I feel like an alien.

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Dignaga

You can buy some (or better he can buy) Apple Airtag Trackers and keep one in your pocket. There is a app for android that works with them. Don't keep it in your purse or wallet, kidnappers know to seperate such objects from their prey.

This way he can track your movements anywhere, obsessively. Though you are far more likely to be snatched in Pakistan than England.

turningthekeys · 31-35, F

@Dignaga ahahahahaha truuuuuu xD

Samek · 36-40, M

I always encourage people that it's okay to meet people from online as long as you practice good safety measures. Always meet in a public populated place. :) nothing wrong with bringing someone with you. Anyone worth meeting won't be offended by that.

GuyWithOpinions · 31-35, M

I think you will be ok. change can be hard and your making huge changes. Just stay true to yourself and be careful.

teachmetiger210503 · 36-40, M

No panic, you will be alright... It's an adventure meeting new people, I mean you know who you are meeting.

Jenny1234 · 56-60, F

You’re boyfriend is correct

retiredbum · 56-60

Can't live in fear but that doesn't mean being careless

BeenSolo · M

Don’t listen to him. get Freaky🙏🏾

Moneyonmymind · 31-35, M

Why are you doing something that upsets him?

turningthekeys · 31-35, F

@Moneyonmymind the problem isn't that it upsets him, it's that it upsets him because he's scared for my safety. I'm not going out to meet shady people, it's just people who are also new to town for work or degrees, and are exploring the city.

Moneyonmymind · 31-35, M

@turningthekeys you literally just repeated what I said 🤦🏾‍♂️ if he’s concerned about your safety it turns into being upset. If I was him I’d leave you so fast 🤷🏾‍♂️

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