If you never got along with a family member and they invited you over for thanksgiving, is it acceptable to show up drunk ?

Shit, I'd show up loaded on angel dust.

Definitely.

Yes.

I think so!!
That’s how I deal with my I laws. Then all the passive aggressive bullshit is laughed at and made fun of until she stops or goes to take a nap.

I'd show up, wave, and say, "Highhhhhhhh, how are youuuuuu?" lol.

It would be a party foul not to.