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Why drug addiction ruins people's lives...

...a recent study has shown that dopamine affects the choices we make. (well duh🙄)

The greater the expected dopamine from any activity ....the more we desire to do it ....makes sense .
A finch will choose courting over quenching thirst or eating if the opportunity arises .

Same with humans.

But the drive from dopamine from a 'hit' or expected hit, (or drink or session or purchase or whatever... etc), can be SO STRONG it can override basic needs such as hunger, thirst, work and relationships.

Basically - un natural dopamine levels from drugs, (or any addiction whether it be gambling, shopping or whatever), override our natural ablitiy to differentiate needs.
- Even drop some needs altogether....they just don't register enough dopamine to be considered personallly important🤷‍♀

And it's why ex addicts have trouble 'feeling' when they quit. Normal dopamine levels just don't cut it like they used to ....so nothing seems desirable any more: not food, not drink, not even love .

And it's why loving an ex addict is so hard . Their dopamine levels have been so numbed over, it takes high amounts for them to register want or desire.

Sorry .... just found it interesting 🤷‍♀

Edit: the good news is, (with the exclusion of some of the newer synthetic drugs), this state is usually repairable over time .

But it can take years for an addictcs body to get jack to normal fuction ....or close to.
And requires dedication.
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SaorUladh · 31-35, M
It's taken quite a while for me to regain some of the capacity to enjoy things again.

nothing seems desirable any more: not food, not drink, not even love .
Food and drink I can enjoy. Love... that's a trickier one. My feelings for people are still, for want of a better term, less sharp than they used to be.

Anyway, this isn't a pity post. I don't see myself as unfortunate or a victim. I'm thankful. Once upon a time, I never would have believed I'd be free of that nightmare.
@SaorUladh its good to see youre still kickin it
You went silent for a while ....i was a lil worried ur demons overtook you .

Glad to see all your hard work is still in place ☺
SaorUladh · 31-35, M
@OogieBoogie yeah I deleted my account last year so I would have fewer distractions. I decided to get back into education, so I needed all my spare time 😂
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@SaorUladh we are proud of you !
KiwiBird · 36-40, F
Totally

I used vodka to get rid of a cocaine addiction. Not my smartest move.
The Voddy was the more addictive.
SammyJo · 51-55, F
@KiwiBird ...and I took on exercise, which is a good exchange, but you have to do it for the best of reasons. Not let yourself be a slave to anything. Us ex-addicts are very sensitive, aren't we?

SJD x
KiwiBird · 36-40, F
@SammyJo Yes...and eventually that is what keeps me clean. Running, Coffee and CrossFit.
SammyJo · 51-55, F
@KiwiBird Wonderful! I have coffee and Shaun T (Insanity) ! Lol!

🥰
OldBrit · 61-69, M
Aa an addict in recovery I think there's some merit to this. For me the addiction overode everything else.

But I feel I used drink (my drug of choice) to numb feelings. I couldn't cope with them.

When I got into recovery one of the many difficulties and one of the hardest was trying to learn how to recognise feelings, how to cope with them and importantly how to live with them.

Do I feel differently to non addicts? Probably but no one can deny anyone their feelings, your reality is your reality.
@OldBrit i think that's why every addict becomes one ....to override or numb feelings they dont want to feel.

Some people can become an addict to sarcasm or humour to achieve the same thing..... some become buliies to stop their inner hurt.

Addiction is rife within humanity.... the thing is - we only acknowledge the obvious ones.
SammyJo · 51-55, F
It does depend on the individual.

I was never, really, an every-day-banging-out-the-drugs addict. I would moderately use, yes sometimes daily, but I would more binge on them for a week or two. That's how I was. I could sometimes go 2-3 days without using. That went on for decade.

I'd given up drugs, properly, for 10 years and still, to this day, I have issues with sleeping. More staying asleep. I wouldn't say that I needed more love for 'forgot' to eat or drink, coming out the other end, but I have had concerns over my health. Of course, I smoke cigarettes, but I still actively exercise - very rigorously too - 5-6 days a week.

It's true getting re-sensitised to the 'real world' can be tough. For some that emotion is too dull, for others the world is too 'loud'.

Just my experiences.

Good post.

SJD x
@SammyJo this is very well put.
Addiction comes in so many forms.
Some even kid themselves that they are a funtional addict - and hide it extremely well.

Your journey shows how deep addiction can affect a life ....make it better.... but also worse.
And that some aspects never leave you .

To this day ... some smells or songs kick me back to the time i was basically an addict ....and i can get a rush - just by an old wired association in my brain 🤷‍♀
bookerdana · M
But quitting coffee is easy,I've done it a thousand times

come2gether · 46-50, M
Yes, all true.
come2gether · 46-50, M
@OogieBoogie an addict can only stop themselves...
@come2gether this ...is so true.

You can shove help at them, argue with them, even fight them.... and it does nothing.

Their only way out is themselves
come2gether · 46-50, M
@OogieBoogie you're not my ex, are you?
DrWatson · 70-79, M
Well said.

Here is another reason, and I think it applies to all addictions.

The cycle of addiction:

I feel pain.
I turn to my addiction to ease the pain.
Afterwards, I feel remorse.
The remorse brings pain.
I turn to my addiction to ease the pain....
@DrWatson yep....it jist cycles worse and worse amd worse.
HobNoblin · 36-40, M
I'm more concerned with the lives of their innocent victims than with anything that happens to drug addicts.
@HobNoblin you've never really been exposed to this have you .... like front line, perosnally ?
HobNoblin · 36-40, M
@OogieBoogie Grew up in slums surrounded by this filth.
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sp1dwoOfe221 · 36-40, M
tbh, food & sleep are much more enjoyable when coming down from, say, an amphetamine binge compared to many other drugs & their withdrawal symptoms tho again, uhhh....🛌🏼
@sp1dwoOfe221 they are ..... but then they are also paramount.
Sleep is the first stage of detox...a few days to a week or more.
Food is the second ....a little longer, two weeks ...with irritability.
Then theres this period where an addict thinks its easy.....
then the fourth stage hits, then the fifth. Etc. depression, aggression, lethargy, cravings, insomnia, mood swings.

Recovering from addiction isnt just physical - its mental and emotional as well.
Nitedoc · 51-55, M
That's good information.
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That information is interesting.
Sadly, that makes a lot of sense. And alas, I have seen it firsthand. 🥺
@bijouxbroussard same.🙁
It drives you nuts.
Tastyfrzz · 61-69, M
Now it sou ds like there is a push to normalize the use of DMT (psychedelics) for Hallucinations. That should work out well. Probably have to add another ten books to the Bible next year.
@Tastyfrzz no i think th push is for psilocybin to be used for terminally ill patients. ...i could be wrong
that's why I don't think cutting out anything cold turkey is feasible for the average person
SammyJo · 51-55, F
@StygianKohlrabi I've only ever done it cold turkey. Yes, brutal, but it depends on your own mindset (which can be quite woozy at this particular time) and then it depends on friends/family and support.

Safe? Probably not. But sometimes you get a bee in your bonnet and just want to get it done right then.

SJD x
@SammyJo well I was referring to most people under most circumstances. just seems like they wouldn't be an addict if they could just put it down forever at any point.
SammyJo · 51-55, F
@StygianKohlrabi This is true. We have to hit our own lows, right?
Bang5luts · M
It's sad. I can't imagine cheesecake not being enough
SandWitch · 26-30, F
Wouldn't it be fair to say that 'any' addiction to anything ruins people's lives?
@SandWitch most likely .
Thars what im talking about .

I explain in the blurb that follows under the title, that anything can be an addiction.

 
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