I'm Still a Virgin, But Dont Want to Be

This is the literal...worst... I stay at home where there’s no room, which means living room for me. Which means I don’t even get to ‘self-love’ properly. And my home town sucks because there’s no men of quality here so no dating... I’M SO PENT UP I CAN FEEL IT IN MY EYES. I’m too old to be a virgin, this is not for the faint of heart 😂

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plutodarling · 31-35, F

There’s nothing to really talk about @Older4funEx

Rekcuf · 31-35, M

I didn't lose my virginity till I was 25 I knew a guy who lost it at 28 a guy at 21 and one who lost it at 12 even someone in the 60s who never met another touch so you got time just a frustrating time ahead of you lol

skydancer237 · 36-40, F

It's not about the age. I was one also until I was 25 and I married the guy. Other guys I have known were horrible and not worth the time of day. Do not rush anything because you will regret it. Look at all the other people with casual sexual partners. Their relationships are messed up and most people don't have a good one.

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skydancer237 · 36-40, F

@plutodarling I was feeling like that for years. I was upset that I could not find one good guy out there but I finally did and it is worth the wait. I know if I gave in, I would feel low about myself if I were to get involved with a bad guy. You also have to watch out cause some guys will say things to lure you in. Pay more attention to actions, not their words. Just be yourself. I met my husband on experience project, a site similar to this. I thought it was impossible to meet someone good but I did. So good luck to you.

plutodarling · 31-35, F

much thanks. luckily I'm actually really good at discerning people. some call it picky but it keeps me out of trouble @skydancer237

skydancer237 · 36-40, F

@plutodarling You're welcome. That is good. Just keep doing what you are doing. :)

canusernamebemyusername · M

There is nothing wrong with it and you are not too old.

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plutodarling · 31-35, F

I mean I'm sure I could, but that feels worse. it's still public, but like public public. that feels worse haha @canusernamebemyusername

canusernamebemyusername · M

@plutodarling Depends on who you feel better about catching you. Strangers or family:/

plutodarling · 31-35, F

hmm... hard neither honestly @canusernamebemyusername

CountScrofula · 41-45, M

Oof. That's a double whammy. Being single in a small town SUUUUCKS (source: I live in a tiny town but am thankfully married), and then not even having privacy on top of that. Sorry. :\

plutodarling · 31-35, F

exactly! but i’ll be strong 😅 @CountScrofula

CountScrofula · 41-45, M

@plutodarling Yeah. Nothing wrong with not having had sex. But it's certainly no fun to just be horny and stuck without options. YOU SHALL OVERCOME uh, or something.