Divorced around 20 years. No rush to marry again anytime soon

13 plus years for me that I have chosen not to date, been single 19 plus years. I got tired of the lies and scams only looking at what I have or make or poses. Whatever happened to being into a person for who they are?

So, I said "F" the dating scene and unless a woman comes into my life accepting me as I am not wanting to change and alter me into what she wants me to be, or saying they like me while asking can I pay for this or that, or what do I drive, or how big is your home, how big is your timber farm, what is your farm worth and so on and so forth.

So, I just quit looking altogether and said screw it I will do the things that make me happy because I do not need the evaluation or accounting review of my life. I am totally happy and content by myself.

Single (no relationship) for 8 yrs next month. I turn 58 next month. Sexless (with no positive relationship or dating experiences) for almost 10 years.

I'm demi-sexual, introverted, neuro-divergent. Can't approach women irl. Dating sites forever a disaster. I don't meet the '666-rule requirements' modern women anecdotally use.

Bought house by myself at age 55, and I freak out thinking a woman I had a relationship with now would try to take both my house plus my retirement savings and screw me over to advantage herself and leave me and my 9 y/o daughter with nothing.

I been divorced 2 years. I dont mind being single.

It'll be a year at the end of this month. She wanted to be single.. just sucked because we have a kid together & I wanted to be a family. She wants me back now but idk if I can do it.

I've dated a few people but I'm really hesitant about labeling anything still. Idk, I just don't wanna do the wrong things

A year. Preferred to fulfill my “happy meter” in life before I let someone in again.

You wouldn't believe me but 1997 year my wife passed

A little over a year and a half. My wife left me.

30 years. I like it this way

Told you. You wouldn't believe me but it's the gods honest truth

I married at a very young age and I'm still married
in not happy ever after let me tell you
it's completed

10 years. I don't want to play the game.

Over 30 years . Trust issues are you I stopped dating

So true! Still bothers me 28 years after.

I'm headed toward being single after a long marriage. My sons are grown, no desire for another family .. so if being honest .. there is virtually no desire to ever be married again.

The legal system makes it a losing proposition if it ends. The statistics are rather strong that its significantly more likely to end than not. Not seeing a likely upside that would be worth the risks to my peace of mind.

Two years. I found out she was going to sketchy places getting drugs and seeing other guys while she was with my (her) kids. The oldest one was able to tell me everything the best way she could. Kids shouldn’t be exposed to that kind of stuff at an early age

My husband died I've been "single" for one year and one month

I've always been single.

I've been divorced since 2009. 🤔🤔🤔 Hmmm. That would be 17 years now. AND I am so shell shocked that living alone, NOT in a relationship, is a delight and a blessing.

I married young and was widowed young. I’ve been in a couple of long term relationships since but never remarried. The last one ended about ten years ago. I’m more comfortable with friendships now.

A long while. Because I'm too damaged.

8 years. i simply havent found anyone im interested in yet

I have been single for quite sometime. I'm too comfortable alone, so it's difficult to let anybody in.

Death. Three and a half years.

13 years. I can’t see a reason to be in a relationship when I’m so happy on my own. I honestly don’t understand how someone can be so miserable alone and unhappy unless they’re in a relationship.

Quite awhile. I was in an on/off situation I can't call a relationship. I'm so happy to be free of it idc about anything else rn lol

Way too long and because I’m broken

9 years. This world is way too greedy of all kinds.

for me it's impossible.

Many many many many years that people had it better.

now life just doesn't seem to matter anymore.

Like 7 months, i havent found someone worth dating

Many years. Got tired. Turns out, they don't really come in different models, just a different body style every year. Same engine, same difficult wiring...
They all said I love my dog more, but that's completely irrelevant. 🤭

I have no interest in committing to anyone. I just don't think it's worthwhile or benefits me much.

2000 years because I am an unacquired taste