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I just can’t carry a child, so it wasn’t really my choice exactly. I could have adopted but I spent a long time in a long term psych ward, so it just was never good timing. I’ll be 48 in November and even though my wife is a bit younger at 36 in December, we’re both getting older and have no plans for kids at our age. I’ve mostly come to terms with it but occasionally it makes me sad as I think I would have been a good Mum. 🤷♀️
foldedunfolding · 41-45, F
@JustGoneNow aw yeah like..i still think i made the best decision for me..but then i had the hysterectomy and it was completely beyond my control then. i was 39 then tho..so i had kinda made my decision, i guess
@foldedunfolding when I was really thinking about kids some day, I was with my ex boyfriend Jacob… many years ago. So probably good thing. I would have been a mostly lesbian tied to a guy that really didn’t turn me on and then he would have had our child to raise alone while I was in the ward. Sad to say, but probably god’s blessing in a way. Just still makes me sad just a little sometimes, ya know? It’s cool, though.