I'm Afraid That I'll Be Single Forever

OK, "afraid" is probably the wrong word choice. I'm not afraid I'll be single for the rest of my life, I'm quite certain of it. As much as I'd love to find that perfect woman to spend the rest of my life with, I'm also terrified to look. Stick your hand in the fire too many times and you learn to fear the flames. Well, I've been burnt for the last time.

Probably ;-)

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Alex28alex

I fear marriage honestly. I see it a turn off for the relationship and for your life too.

Zaphod42 · 46-50, M

Probably why my marriage only lasted 2 years, and last month was the 15th anniversary of the divorce, lol.

Alex28alex

Man you're still counting 😄
You're just awesome, and being unmarried doesn't necessary means being single. Let your feelings commit not papers / marriage agreement. Deal with love with craziness, and as an old man advised me once "live the moment". What hurts is us getting attached to the past and wanting what we do not have anymore. So what hurts is: "not living the moment" but instead insisting on "living the past at the moment".
Go ahead face the flames with ice or search for what you love and let it kill you, i guess it's the best way to die, some things deserve to die for rather than keep on living on the edge.