How do I deal with being unlovable and forever alone?
I accepted it a long time ago but lately it’s been harder to deal with.
31-35, M
Baybreeze · 41-45, F
I remember one of my fave. authors saying something really eye opening. (Byron Katie) She said we are love ITSELF. So no one is unloveable, it just can't be and is not true.
Maybe some people put up walls, some act aloof, some feel unworthy (I am one , unfortunately), or question any kindness or compliment. BUT, even with all those traits or behavior, they are not unloveable, and you are not as well. 🪻
Maybe some people put up walls, some act aloof, some feel unworthy (I am one , unfortunately), or question any kindness or compliment. BUT, even with all those traits or behavior, they are not unloveable, and you are not as well. 🪻
Alyosha · 36-40, M
Yeah, I hear you. Some days it doesn't bother me, and other days I can't sleep.
Younameit · F
What is pushing people away from you?
Captainjackass · 31-35, M
@Younameit people don’t like me and I mostly don’t like people.
Magicianzini · M
@Captainjackass If you don't like people, then why would you want to be around them..
XxBlahxX · F
But why do you think you're unloveable
AngelUnforgiven · 51-55, F
Why do you feel that you are unloveable?
Captainjackass · 31-35, M
@AngelUnforgiven because I am?
AngelUnforgiven · 51-55, F
@Captainjackass okay