Single….ish

Do you like being second best? Anytime you are with someone in a standing relationship that's all you will ever be.
Don't listen to the wife won't put out if that's the case tell him to get a hooker. Or we have an open relationship, if that's the case tell him you want to talk to his wife and verify that. Unless you are just looking for no strings attached sex where your not banging strangers all the time. What are you looking for and expecting ? That's what you have to figure out. Whatever your choice do it because that's what YOU want .

Honestly, the spark he feels now towards the possible relationship of any kind with you will be short lasting and only leave you hurt because he will at one point stop giving you his love and affection which he will reason with him being someone elses or with a lack of time, energy, you name it.
So for the sake of your mental well being and not getting hurt, find a free guy to be yours and only yours.

That taken guy, is a direct, first class, one-way, ticket to heartache and frustration. If his feelings for you really amount to anything, he'll get free and come find you. You would be ill advised to waste your good years waiting for someone for whom you are a "have a laugh, just for fun" gal. Speaking from a place of experience and regret with a heart that will never be the same.

I would suggest that you will end up disappointed in the end. He already has everything he wants so don't set up any expectation that you will ever be put first in line. I have seen this and I have never seen it go the fairytale route. My recommendation is to find another person who truly is single, unless you just want to be a side piece

If he's married, then you should leave it well alone. If he has children with this woman, then don't go there either. If she's just a girlfriend and they're not engaged or anything, then all is fair in love and war. But maybe expect trouble from her if he decides to quit the relationship and join you.

As hard as it can be - yes you should leave him in the dust and move on to someone who’s going to be yours and yours alone.

I’d suggest you keep all the options open🙂

See where things go just because somebody happens to be taken doesn't mean they're always happy. There's a big difference and if the interest is mutual then do not feel any guilt remember it takes two to tango

ok if he is spoken for just imagine this. imagine you are with him and another gal tries to move in on him what would you do. im sure ud get pissed

A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush. So secure the bird in the hand and then go for the two in the bush.

You may get all three or at least you have one at home.

if you do take him away from his significant other just remember
1) he can't be trusted
2) you now have a cheater...congrats?

I was going to say come be my girl. But, you don't seem open minded and submissive enough based on your profile.

I'd say don't rule out other possibilities for a guy who may never get there for you.

I think you need to leave him, but decision rests with you

Yes you should move on. Unless you knew him when he was still single and you get the feeling that something is not right and his relationship won’t last long. Even then I think maybe you should keep your options open and date around at least in the meantime. You might fall in love with someone new.

Move on

1) How would you feel if you were the person he was spoken for already and someone else came around? Unless they are both knowingly consenting of your pursuit, you are Wandering in the territory of knowingly causing harm.

2) If s/he will do it for you, s/he will do it to you. Assuming this isn't an open relationship thing where everyone is consenting, then the fact that this guy might be willing to entertain feelings for you while he's with someone else means he'll be willing to entertain feelings for someone else while he's with you.