Single….ish

I recently became a single gal! But I’m interested in a more mature guy. The problem is he’s already spoken for. There are feelings there on both sides. Should I just move on and let him go? I’ve been asked out by other guys, but I turned them down….. was that wrong? Should I just except that I need to start seeing other men… I’m just so confused 😫 he makes me laugh and I get excited every single time I see him. He’s quirky (which I adore) he’s flirty and fun, he makes me feel me again! Should I stay away? Should I see where things go?

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ViciDraco · 41-45, M

1) How would you feel if you were the person he was spoken for already and someone else came around? Unless they are both knowingly consenting of your pursuit, you are Wandering in the territory of knowingly causing harm.

2) If s/he will do it for you, s/he will do it to you. Assuming this isn't an open relationship thing where everyone is consenting, then the fact that this guy might be willing to entertain feelings for you while he's with someone else means he'll be willing to entertain feelings for someone else while he's with you.