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Do you find being single difficult?

sarabee1995 · 26-30, F
I found it easier than now being in a committed relationship. But being in a relationship does have it's benefits. 😁
KiwiBird · 36-40, F
@sarabee1995 Totally. A relationship takes a lot of work and compromise from both parties.
sarabee1995 · 26-30, F
@KiwiBird Yes absolutely. We are just adjusting to all that now. We know this is it for us. We either make this work or we go our separate ways. The hope is that the third time is actually the charm! :)
Lanyx · 41-45, M
Absolutely not. I'm an introvert, so it suits my personality better. Since I am invisible to women, I don't bother acquiring one. As I joke, I don't need any help in spending my own money, I can do that myself, honey.
Lanyx · 41-45, M
@SilentObZerver Conservative society. I love the location of my rented appartament and I don't want to lose it. Also, she need so be attracted to me, where she has better choices than an overweight, middle age, mid-income, short-tooled man.
@Lanyx I appreciate your honesty. The world opens more when you find yourself attracted to many ages. It's rare I really find young women attractive now, beyond physically, as I know I'm going to become bored with their maturity. I would suggest looking upon the physical aspects, but if that is your attraction preference it may become hard.
@Lanyx

I'm an introvert, so it suits my personality better.

Please do not promote this craziness.
BlueVeins · 22-25
No, it comes naturally for me!
Elessar · 26-30, M
"Being in a relationship is about solving problems together.

.. Problems that you wouldn't have if you were single"
zonavar68 · 56-60, M
Not at all, but I'd like to have a nice positive mutual relationship now and then. I don't think i'm 'configured' to be able to have a life-long enduring relationship and have tried the long-term relationship thing twice with disasters in both.

I'm very comfortable being single though and would actually find it very hard to make 'emotional space' for someone else now I've spent most of life depending only on myself for comfort and support..
Being married is way harder. 🤣
@YourMomsSecretCrush was for me, yeah.
SilentObZerver · 22-25, M
You look at what married people complain about their marriage and what others in relationships say ......


You will realise being single is quite easier compared to not being single

Imagine being in a sexless marriage/relationship.....
Divorce after 23 year relationship and 20 years of it married. I’m learning. Kinda lonely sometimes rn, but not as bad as I thought it’d be and I’m getting used to it.
Tigress · 22-25, F
Yes and no. Its hard because im scared its gonna stay like this forever. But not having to worry about things and having your peace is great
SilentObZerver · 22-25, M
@Tigress scared of being single forever?

Why?
Adogslife · 61-69, M
I found it really easy. Dating is fun. It’s also less expensive than being married. I also like my alone time, so that makes things easier too.
Dolimyte · 41-45, M
At times . I miss the physical intimacy. I don't miss the emotional abuse.
@Dolimyte this.
deadgerbil · 26-30
Nah it's pretty easy. I'm not desperate and content by myself
come2gether · 46-50, M
At times, yes. But that's only because I was not single for 20 years
supersnipe · 61-69, M
No, because I've always been that way.
Sometimes. Other times I'm glad I am.
HannahSky · F
At times, yes.
FeetAreFantastic · 41-45, M
No I find it a godsend!
tenente · 100+, M
divorcee here. i prefer it. what do you want to know?
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