I am lonely I am tired of being alone people are weird I would like to meet someone that gets...

We moved when I was just starting high school. So I transferred into a new high school after classes had already started. Everyone else pretty much had known each other since first grade or before. I spent the first few days at lunch time wandering the halls feeling all alone amongst a bunch of cliques of weird people. Then I ran into another guy wandering the halls. I asked him if he was new too. He said no, he had lived there all his life, gone to school with most of the kids all his life. I decided then that the weird people might be the two of us for not making more of an effort to reach out and become involved. Next lunch hour I joined a couple of clubs. By the time I graduated I was actively involved in a multitude of activities, had been chosen as a Boys State representative for the school, been a candidate for student body president, and selected by the yearbook staff as one of a handful of students for their Hall of Fame Seniors. Sometimes we need to "get" ourselves in order for others to "get" us.

Amylynne · 26-30, F

and you should. but you have to go out where people are..
not bars. but things you are interested in. places you would go because you like it
there, you will meet people more to your liking.
and stop looking into your phone,, when out.. look around

😘

riseofthemachine · 41-45, M

Just watch the people trying to manage your life cause usually they can’t manage there own life and they’d leave you ending up like a basket case .
It’s good to have fun , but take life seriously.
I rather be alone by myself than being lonely in a relationship or lonely with people .
Watch the trick in the mind tell you your life is crap and everyone else’s is better cause that think would make you alone and what it really is , is that you feel sorry for yourself .
Self pity is a disease in itself

eMortal · M

You’ve come to the right place. Hopefully you’ll find some who lives nearby and understands you.

stound

Understandable. Not really sure where or even that people meet anymore

Nick1 · 61-69, M

Right way to start is becoming friends. It’s nice to be friends. And see how it goes.

Havesomefun2 · 56-60, M

Well let’s just chat

DCarey · 46-50, M

This is a great dating site.

SubstantialKick · 36-40, M

Me too.

sciguy18 · M

I am embarrassed to say how long I’ve been alone. After a while, I’ve become accustomed to it. It’s too late for me, but you are still young enough to do something about it.