Does loneliness hit you the hardest at night?

Indeed, because it is at night that we are in the most peaceful and quiet environment. It is also the most reflective, inspiring, creative time. Naturally, you feel more alone because you become more self-aware at that time.

Temporary cuddle fix: Have you tried those pillows you can hug? They could make you feel more cozy. Also, hot showers have something comforting, like a hug.

Welcome that "alone" feeling and explore it... is it possible that you may be missing connection with yourself..? Feeling that your own company is enough to be content is the first step; it will help you in sustaining future healthier love bonds because your balance will not depend on them.

You can do that by spending more time with your hobbies and also by trying new things.

Just because you did not yet meet your SO does not mean you should not enjoy life - meet your most trustworthy friends often!

Now is the time to shine - be the person you want to meet - it will happen! ^_^

PS: always remember the other side of the medal: there was a quote I can't recall but it said something in the lines of: "...to some - it is loneliness, to others - freedom". Being free can be nice - grow and bloom :) ♡

Wow so back when I was younger before I had a taste of serious relationships and married life, DEFINITELY. I felt so lonely I felt physical pain in my chest sometimes. Now though? No way. I'm not missing anything, only arguments, children (aka baggage), and not having my income drained by stuff that isn't really necessary to me.

You will. I am a profit. Ive seen things. I feel things. Your next love is very close.

We find what we need when we miss it sometimes. We're not meant to be alone. We're meant for family and belonging :)

And our most vulnerable time is the night. I hope you find your match soon

If someone as pretty as you is lonely and single then someone like me is screwed lol

Hang in there miss and may you find what you seek soon enough

*sneak sneak sneak POUNCE* HI THAR, FRIENDO!!!!! :D

I wish you all the best.

Absolutely. I get through the days. But I
Miss that someone special so much in the evening/night

Yes its always worse at night. The best we can hope for is to die in our sleep...

Yeah it does. But what hits even harder is at night with someone who makes you feel alone.

I can concure 100% with this post. I would not mind to chat

Those tend to be my thoughts while drifting off to sleep at night:(

More during the run up to dawn. Thats the worst time for me.

Strangely enough it's afternoons that seems to hit me the hardest.

Naw I just a rub a few out and pass out from the exhaustion.

I can be in a roomful of people & still be lonely, night or day

Holidays, birthdays and Valentines day.

I feel at peace in my room alone at night.

Same feeling. But sit tight and let fate do the rest.

oftentimes, sadly 🥺🥺

I'm used to it.

Yes it does

It does. But stay open to possibilities and you will happen on something when you least expect it.

Yeah, right as the evening calms and you can put the day behind you is the time it really starts setting in.

Often

Sometimes the days drag out for me when my daughter is away

Actually, it hits me first thing in the morning.