Does it really get better or worst?

I wonder what victims of abuse did once they got away .my abusive ex will be getting out in a year and I’m a bit nervous because I know I will always be paying attention, having anxiety everywhere I go .I feel like ny bd will try to get revenge so I know from now on out , I have to carry something on me, I would rather leave ny but I’m waiting trying to research if I should move a city over but what worries is me is that people can find out where u live just by researching your name to google and it will give an address as well, i even thought of changing my name and go to a gun state, I know these things take time but I wanna be readying. It’s so much on my mind

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AlchemyFox · 36-40, F

This shit pisses me off.

I had a man attack me at my home, complete psycho. I didn’t want to date him because he was an abusive, alcoholic jerk so he waited for me. He hid until I got off of work, luckily I just saw the sunset glinting off his taillight and he had been threatening me all day. I call the police and they come get him, but are like, dicks to me. Telling me not to talk to men like him. It’s my own fault, all this crap. I ask what to do to stay safe, they say, move.

Why do we have to uproot our whole lives for these bastards?? Isn’t that giving them the power?

I just stay scary now. I have weapons coming out of my ears. I don’t even try with people anymore.

Abusers always win unless they’re locked up or dead.

moongoddessx · 26-30, F

@AlchemyFox omg I felt this so much , it’s constant fear because these asses can’t move on , I hate to think that way as well , feeling imma have to get up and leave .. I do feel like they do have power but then again they are just wasting thier days harrassing females. It’s about if they ever give up sadly my ex was arrested 20 times this year and I finally got balls to keep him in jail .. idk lol fuck my poor decision .