Bf said he's going to take me to The Cheesecake Factory for my birthday

I've never been there, I've heard it's nice. But my real birthday wish is that he starts treating me better on a daily basis, not just on my birthday.

Update: big shocker, he didn't take me.

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BamPow · 51-55, M

People treat you how you allow them to treat you. If he’s got a track record of treating you poorly, put your foot down and raise the bar. He’ll either step up and treat you better, or he’ll bail. Either way, you’ll end up being treated better than you are now.