Bf said he's going to take me to The Cheesecake Factory for my birthday I've never been there,...

You will like the cheese cake factory. And I agree. Love should be expressed more besides on holidays and birthdays and even on special occasions. I hope you have a great birthday by the way

Donna15 · 41-45, F

That’s nice he’s taking you out but the Cheesecake Factory isn’t fine dining and I think your wish is far more important.

robbie2499 · 61-69, F

This post made me sad! Happy Birthday to you and I sincerely hope your wish comes true. Have you talked with him about his treatment of you?

BamPow · 51-55, M

People treat you how you allow them to treat you. If he’s got a track record of treating you poorly, put your foot down and raise the bar. He’ll either step up and treat you better, or he’ll bail. Either way, you’ll end up being treated better than you are now.

Northwest · M

Cheesecake factory? There's no Olive Garden nearby?

You should ask him to make you a meal, at home as a way for him to start a new chapter.

TryingtoLava

OMF yesssssss the cheesecake factory has my earliest memories :) get the spicy cashew chicken or the jumbaliya i cant spell it that spicy new orleans pasta dish! Happy birthday ambe <3 <3 im sorry your bf is acting in his traditional way