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lovingdead · 31-35, M
Why do it?
Most of your posts I see are your observations about men in your area, unsure what the women ones are like, but that means you're pretending for 50% of people that you only seem to have bad experiences with. So dealing with guys makes you unhappy, as well as pretending....that alone is a lot of chaos.
Maybe being your real self will cascade and ripple out. Can it be any worse than this now?
Most of your posts I see are your observations about men in your area, unsure what the women ones are like, but that means you're pretending for 50% of people that you only seem to have bad experiences with. So dealing with guys makes you unhappy, as well as pretending....that alone is a lot of chaos.
Maybe being your real self will cascade and ripple out. Can it be any worse than this now?
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@lovingdead idk i am just scared of being disliked, offending others or ending up alone.
Not just my area, i didn't have good experiences with western men online either.... maybe i came across wrong ones only.
Not just my area, i didn't have good experiences with western men online either.... maybe i came across wrong ones only.
lovingdead · 31-35, M
@sahi81 I understand the fear of being judged or alone.
But let's say you could meet a guy tomorrow, and be happy...but you have to pretend forever.
In theory it sounds nice....but YOU will still be alone, the fake you will be with someone though.
Imagine your favorite food, but you need to wear a mask while eating. You'll only get to eat it by little bits, never getting a good mouthful. It kinda takes away the joy and benefits of it being your favorite.
But let's say you could meet a guy tomorrow, and be happy...but you have to pretend forever.
In theory it sounds nice....but YOU will still be alone, the fake you will be with someone though.
Imagine your favorite food, but you need to wear a mask while eating. You'll only get to eat it by little bits, never getting a good mouthful. It kinda takes away the joy and benefits of it being your favorite.
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lovingdead · 31-35, M
And who is yourself, how does it differ from the person people want you to be?
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Donotfolowme · 51-55, F
Donotfolowme · 51-55, F
@sahi81 they normally don't knock on the doors but let's see may be they do in your case
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@Donotfolowme sry what u mean? i can't understand
Donotfolowme · 51-55, F
@sahi81 Right people
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