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Does everyone get lonely from time to time, or just bored?

Rickg · 31-35, M
Idk
Maybe because I’m introverted and can’t constantly dedicate my time and energy to other people
Maybe people take this as a sign I’m not interested at all
I’ve been selfish, felt like my friends weren’t the friends I deserved, and pushed them away. I sorely regret this, and it’s made me lonely as I’ve gotten older
With romantic relationships the same thing, I just fantasize about people I’m emotionally and physically attracted to, while ignoring potential parents that did not conform to some ideal
I have social anxiety, so I often am awkward in social situations, don’t use the right tones, make an appropriate amount of eye contact, little nervous ticks, make strange expressions facial expressions, I can’t express emotion that well so people have told me I seem disinterested
I have interests that don’t align with that of most people, so even finding something to talk about that’s not highly superficial is difficult
Sometimes i find it intimidating to contribute to conversations, because of how what I say might be judged
So I remain silent or give generic responses which I’m sure bores people to tears
A lot of it is my own doing
I’ve spent a lot of time looking back abs pondering about how I got where I am

@MrKindaFunny
Rickg · 31-35, M
I’ve had one serious partner. I’m a little overweight. I dabbled at playing the piano but never learned it, I smoke weed occasionally, usually when I’m drinking @MrKindaFunny
@Rickg 2 partners, little overweight, can poorly play piano and guitar, smoked weed and did other drugs as a child but T total now. Weird.
Rickg · 31-35, M
Well good for you on being sober and actually being able to play instruments @MrKindaFunny
Starcrossed · 41-45, F
I think most everyone gets both from time to time.
Rickg · 31-35, M
I’ve felt lonely my entire life
And will likely continue to do so
Even though I’ve had family and acquaintances at varying points in my life
I’ve never been able to make more or a superficial connection to other people
@Rickg I feel this too Rick, why do you think it is? I’ve met loads of people in the past 10 years I could have been good friends with but it’s never happened.
Beautywithin · 36-40, F
Why do you think a lot of people are on here! Its one or the other
SW-User
@Beautywithin this is accurate :)
Yeah I figured as much. I was hoping to use it as a conversation starter to try and get some coping mechanism tips. @Beautywithin
Thevy29 · 41-45, M
Loneliness is its own mental illness and one I have had a good deal of experience with.
Carissimi · 70-79, F
More lonely than bored.
@Carissimi oh my god that’s so Buddhist of you. I wish I was that cool! I half expected you to go into some sort of parable about water and rocks and boats!
Carissimi · 70-79, F
I can no longer claim to be a Buddhist, but it’s practices are wise. I’m not cool, just doing my best to ease the suffering of life, and I find this the best way for me. @MrKindaFunny
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rrraksamam · 31-35, M
No. It's a permanent feeling
@rrraksamam is that good? Is it a funny?
rrraksamam · 31-35, M
@MrKindaFunny It gives lonely people a different perspective
I’ll check it out thanks! @rrraksamam
Scarfface · 46-50, M
I'm always lonely, I've gotten used to it so much I don't mind it. I'm occasionally bored but not often.
Poeticdiva · 31-35, F
I remain lonely.
@Poeticdiva I’m so sorry for you. Would you like to be friends?
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@MrKindaFunny Im here 🤷‍♀️
Justenjoyit · 56-60, M
Both for me
I’m sorry to hear that buddy. @Justenjoyit
DDonde · 31-35, M
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@Stereoguy covid was pretty bad on everything and everyone huh. I like to be positive and believe that things can be better.
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iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
I get pretty lonely at times
Me too. Do you do anything to try and mitigate the damage? @iamonfire696

 
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