Cheesecake · 61-69, M
In what way are you helpless? Is it a physical thing or are you talking emotionally/psychologically?
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wordsiheldback · 26-30, F
@Cheesecake Thank you :) it means a lot to hear that because I usually tell myself that I'm really bad at it, but I continue to stick with it anyway so hopefully I'm improving. :)
Cheesecake · 61-69, M
@wordsiheldback never give up on something you enjoy :-)
And if you ever feel despondent and need a pep-talk, just pm me. I usually check in at least once a day. You'll always be welcome :-)
And if you ever feel despondent and need a pep-talk, just pm me. I usually check in at least once a day. You'll always be welcome :-)
wordsiheldback · 26-30, F
@Cheesecake Thank you, that's very kind! :)
learn to believe in yourself you are your own best friend, and you deserve the love and respect as much if not more than anyone else!
wordsiheldback · 26-30, F
@TiltingatWindmills Thank you! I am learning that I truly only have myself and I suppose that's enough. :)
@wordsiheldback @wordsiheldback I would not believe that is enough but is is important to know it is all you really need.....You seem a bright amd very attractive young woman ....The world is out there waiting for you select wisely you have your pick!
samueltyler2 · 80-89, M
Sorry to hear, but when God leaves you lemons, make lemonade. Are your parents not in the picture?
samueltyler2 · 80-89, M
Perhaps your folks don't understand the situation. I am a parent, I admit that happens.
wordsiheldback · 26-30, F
@samueltyler2 They know my feelings and how much I'm struggling as I've told them so many times. There just seems to be no compassion or empathy which I really need but I think they just don't know how to give it.
samueltyler2 · 80-89, M
That is sad for them as well as you.
GoodoldBob · 61-69, M
Emotionally or financially or both?
wordsiheldback · 26-30, F
@GoodoldBob emotionally
GoodoldBob · 61-69, M
@wordsiheldback Sometimes you need people you can talk to freely and who try to be understanding.
wordsiheldback · 26-30, F
@GoodoldBob yeah, I just don't think I'll ever find anyone like that anymore. Whenever I do, they just leave and it hurts. :(
I can relate to feeling like a little kid even though I'm technically an adult at 19...but instead of becoming attached I push people away because I'm scared they're gonna use me or hurt me...it really sucks being lonely...I'm sorry you have to go through this
wordsiheldback · 26-30, F
@Insomniac100 omg I relate so hard. I get attached to people so easy but I also push them away, I guess because I want them to prove they will stick around and not just leave. Idk, I'm a bit of a mess haha.

SW-User
hope your life gets sorted out
wordsiheldback · 26-30, F
@SW-User thank you, I hope so too :(