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Is it weird?

I am bisexual, as y'all may or may not know. There is a coworker (female) who I've been noticing a little more lately...not that I want to BE with her, but more like I think she's sexy and cute yet I DON'T want to fk her.

Almost like, I am attracted to her energy but not wanting to have $e× with her.
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JoyfulSilence · 51-55, M
I am drawn to a friendly, smart, engaging, young, male coworker in an adjacent cube. And he is cute!

I am not gay or bi, though. I feel no physical attraction, other than an acknowledgement of his cuteness (yet I keep that to myself). But he makes me feel good. Perhaps someday we will work on a project together. We occasionally chat about our new office (that is how we met, we were sat next to each other). Sometimes we talk about work and career. He has only been working 2 years, and I retire in 6 years. I can offer some advice but he is sharp. I hope we can retain him. People like that seldom remain.

The women like him, too. In the next cube is a young woman, whose perfume fills my cube, too. It sometimes makes me sneeze, though. I am not a big fan, but keep my mouth shut. She and he chat a lot, and head in and out of the office together at times. I do not know if they are together, though. I do not talk to her much. Young ladies do not want to chat with old men, anyway. Yet she and I are on a board. She is the "recorder". So she has to record my blabs.

Another young woman stops by to chat with him, too. Maybe they are together? Who knows?

If I liked men and so did he, and I was also young and cute, too, I'd want to get to know him more.

He said he has a second job as a bartender. He fits the personality.
SanAntonioWest · 18-21, M
It's not weird to me. I think we can be attracted to someone that we just want to be around, not necessarily be with. I also think for those of us attracted to the same sex, we sometimes admire an attractive, sexy person as someone we want to be more like.
ScreamingFox · 41-45, F
Not weird. I'm pansexual and figure it's all weird so to speak, so however you feel is okay.
Not weird. It's who you are. I'm attracted to different people in different ways for different reasons. I don't think attraction has to be a set form to adhere to.
MarisaMale · M
Not weird at all. I'm bi and understand where your're coming from
Notsimilarreally · 31-35, F
Not weird. And I know what you mean, same.
It is a valid question and not weird at all. Your feelings are your truth
SlippingAway · 46-50, F
Not weird at all, I think it's normal to have non sexual attraction to people especially if you dig their personality
VisionQuest · 51-55, M
I 💯 understand it!
Matt85 · 36-40, M
its just respectful
AngelUnforgiven · 51-55, F
No it's not weird. Attraction isn't always about just sex.
I don't see anything weird at all about this.
Muthafukajones · 46-50, M
Maybe you want to be pals with her… you know…

Bra and panty shopping
Mimosas
Tickle fights
Sleep overs

So many things!!!
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
@Muthafukajones we already are pals. We get along great but she's not super bright, so I have to "dumb down" a little when I talk to her. 😬
Muthafukajones · 46-50, M
@DearAmbellina2113 That’s ok! Think of all the things you can teach her!

I have a dumb male friend that I really enjoy instead of judging her realize that she probably admires how much smarter than her you are! You might appreciate her more that way!
Degbeme · 70-79, M
Doesn`t seem weird to me.
Ferise1 · 46-50, M
I like male bodybuilders, but I don’t wanna have sex with them

 
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