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When you had a kid, did you love it immediately?

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PatientlyWaiting25 · 46-50, F
Different for me because my children are adopted. Attachment is something that has not always been easy, they were healing and had a lot of trauma, I was trying to work out how to parent around that and also grieving for biological children I lost. I have often wondered what my parenting journey would have been like if I had of had biological children, really just for curiosity sake more than anything. My children are more than enough and I wouldn't want to change them.
Yes, but because of my own childhood. I actually really struggled to want to be a mom for years. It doesn’t just come automatically and not as rewarding as ppl make it sound.

If I could do it over again I would wait until I was more healed emotionally before ever bringing a life into this world.
MommaBear · 26-30, F
I dealt with bad prenatal depression every single time and struggled to bond with my babies while I was pregnant with them BUT the second they were born I fell in love immediately and knew I’d do anything to make sure they were happy and that they felt loved
exexec · 70-79, C
Absolutely! My eyes were so filled with tears that I couldn't take a photo of our new child.
ScreamingFox · 41-45, F
I felt very disconnected when I was pregnant, but as soon as they laid him on my chest everything changed. I loved him so much. I love him every moment.
SleepingWithGhosts · 46-50, M
Absolutely. I loved both my kids when they were born immediately, 100%
From the moment I knew she was there
MellyMel22 · F
Yep, did before they were born.
Selah ·
@SUPERVlXEN I didn't know you had kids
SUPERVlXEN · F
@Selah
It’s never been a secret but also not something I’m advertising on this site full of creeps.

 
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