Some people just don't get it

Do you have that one person who drives you up the wall but you know if you tell them, they'll be crushed?
It's having a very negative affect on my entire life.
I feel disrespected and intruded upon and absolutely smothered to the point to where I'm going to have to have my doctor up my meds....

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Frostcloud · F

ah yes, sacrificing your own health for someone elses. i wish i didnt understand and havent experienced this time and time again myself

im very sorry. i dont know your situation and its not my place to give advice. but , truly, your comfort, mental, and physical health matters ❤

if your best friend, an acquaintance, or wven a stranger, read your post to you like it was their own, what would you tell them?

Tumbleweed · F

@Frostcloud I've told this person many many times, plainly and clearly - I do not want company. I do not want phone calls. I do not want to go anywhere... Yet they call me to tell me they're coming over so we can go out somewhere... We work together so we chat all day, they park beside me so we chat after work, then they call in the evenings and it's always about I, Me,I,Me,I,Me. All I can get in is yeah, I know, yeah, I know, yeah,I know. 😡😢

Frostcloud · F

@Tumbleweed i had a relationship exactly like this. i am so grateful every day they're no longer in my life. i moved states and i still get scared hes going to break into the house lol.

please, get cameras and refuse to see them. document telling them no. maybe go to hr too